Fran Drescher
1 Useful and an easy-read, but also self-serving
This book is a memoir of Fran Drescher's experience with uterine cancer. She does give some useful advice to all, mostly women, but not only women, who have unexplained symptoms. She reminds us that doctors are not gods, and we need to be active participants in our own health care. Ask questions, get information, speak up! For this, the book is very useful.
Drescher also does an adequate job describing her feelings as she goes through getting a diagnosis, undergoing surgery, and trying to recover. This is also useful, especially when she tells women that recovering from a hysterectomy is a Big Deal!
Her writing is mostly breezy and entertaining; however, I found it at times whiny and self-serving. She lapses into psychoanalysis a lot, which seemed a bit out of place. She sometimes goes into way more detail than I think she needed to. Some of her prose is a little rambling. And she spends many pages saying, "Look at me -- I'm The Nanny!"
Nonetheless, she has written a very honest account of her brush with cancer. It was brave of her to put herself out there, especially knowing that reviewers such as myself might find her a bit whiny. Even if she's trying to remind us how fabulous she is, she seems sincerely to be trying to help people. And for that, she gets three stars!
2 Discussing Cancer with Humor as only Fran can
Cancer is a serious subject, yet Fran managed to write about it in a way that makes you laugh as well as cry. Sharing her experiences will help many women.
Buy this book. The information it contains is priceless. You will not be sorry.
Diane Gasparri Offutt
3 Not worth buying
While the information Ms. Drescher gives on her symptoms and warning signs are eye-openers, the book itself is a disappointing waste of paper. Her whining and pettiness has turned what was once a devoted fan of hers to someone who is so glad I don't have to live with someone so selfish and self-absorbed in my life. Wish I could get my money back from Ms. Drescher, no wonder she's not on TV anymore.
4 i like fran
I am a fan of Ms. Drescher and I enjoyed reading this intimate account of a diificult chapter in her life. Plus, it's a great true story of how shrinks are quacks and medical doctors, unless they have some kind of alternative training, are uninformed, cruel, and totally lacking proper bedside manner. They also lack effective diagnostic skills and humane treatments. So I guess MD's are quacks too!
5 An easy read, more for fun than information...
I purchased this book at the dollar store so I really had nothing to lose. It was an easy read that didn't require much mental or emotional commitment. I agree with the other reviewers that there is a good message re: not ignoring any symptoms... I also agree with many of the reviewers who commented on Drescher's whininess. She doesn't seem to get how self centered she comes across. I don't begrudge her for being rich and priveleged, but have some tact for the readers your book will inevitably draw, i.e. less priveleged cancer patients. Fran never lost an opportunity to complain about something, or to mention someone's admiration of her. It was brutally honest in a bad sense of revealing unimportant details of her bowel movements (not relevant) and the same with her sex life with her new boyfriend, she shared more than I cared to know. And yet, there were areas where honest revelation would have been interesting and helpful to others, but never occurred. In the end, this is a book which passes the time and piques some interest without being very memorable. Not bad for a dollar though!
6 Technically helpful but does not relate to the average woman
Fran Dresher is a decent author. She clearly related her situation and technically, the details about her symptoms and tests she underwent are definitely helpful reading.
However, most of this book will not be helpful to the average woman. Fran Dresher is someone who has the privillage of knowing money is no object and who's main concerns were extremely self involved. There is no worrying about work, missing work, making sure there was food on the table or the laundry done and house cleaned, etc, during and after such an illness. With the details out of the way, the recovery section seemed too selfish and privilaged to be considered helpful to other women and was more of a biography.
7 Aah Hah!!!
This probably this most enjoyable book I have read by a celebratey, who talks about herself having uterine cancer. It is merely pages form her journal, as well as her experiences through the process. There is also stuff about her family and boyfriend in it.
It's just a fun book. And she doesn't get extremely technical with details. It said on the side cover that, "she wants you to make youself a cup of tea, kick your feet back and dish with her!!!"
That's exactly what you'll do when you read this book.
8 Read this book!
Fran Drescher, she is simply amazing, as is this book! This slim work is a really quick and easy read, yet also rewarding and touching. In fact, it feels as if your deep in conversation with Fran and you don't want to look away because the content is so engaging and heartfelt. I have always been an admirer of hers, but only after reading this book did I realize the immense talent she possesses! She is wonderful writer, able to captivate her audience and get into your heart. The story she tells, her story, is one that must be heard, must be retold, and must be remembered. Fran, if you read this reviews, I applaud you for the courage you had and continue to have. You are wonderful!
9 Great !!!!!!!
This book really touched my heart
i mean not only did it talk about herlife
but sertain stuff she said made me wanna laugh and cry
when i finished reading this book i felt so good
about me i mean it just helped boast my confidence
this is a must read to eney one who likes her or even if you dont
10 I COULD NOT PUT IT DOWN!
I COULD NOT PUT THIS BOOK DOWN. I BOUGHT IT LAST NIGHT AND READ THE WHOLE THING IN ONE SITTING. THIS IS A WONDERFUL READ FOR ANYONE WHO HAS EVER HAD CANCER OR KNOWN ANYONE WHO HAS. ALL WOMEN SHOULD READ THIS BOOK SINCE IT IS VERY INFORMATIVE ON GYNECOLOGICAL CANCER (SHE SUFFERED FROM UTERINE CANCER). "CANCER SCHMANCER" IS FULL OF THE WIT AND HUMOR THAT WE HAVE COME TO KNOW FROM FRAN AS WELL AS SOME VERY TOUCHING PASSAGES. A MUST READ! 10 STARS!
11 I can't relate
I read the excerpt from this book and it's all I needed to see. I'm sorry, but this woman just doesn't speak to me. It seems to be one big brag about herself. She talks about her housekeepers, blah, blah, blah and her fancy schmancy house. Then she gets the call from her doctor. She claims this doctor assured her she did not have cancer. If a doctor told me this before he/she ran any tests, I'd leave. That is just downright irresponsible. Then, of course, the doctor had to backtrack after finding out that Fran did, indeed have cancer. She claims the doctor told her she could call if there was any problem--even if she just needed a hug. There were two possibilities here: 1) The doctor was trying to cover her backside by seeming to be sooo compassionate or 2) The doctor really did care about her patient. If the case was #1, Fran should've found a new doctor immediately. If the case was #2, then she should've thanked the doctor. She said she felt no need to thank the doctor (but she did anyway). Hmmmm...is she naive or is she just so caught up in herself she can't bring herself to be grateful? Sorry, but there is just too much narcissism in this book for me. Now, I will go prepare for my surgery without the help of servants. And I will certainly express my gratitude to my doctor for taking care of me.
12 Fantastic Insight, Answers, and Awareness. OUTSTANDING BOOK
Fran Drescher brings fantastic insight into the symptoms, proper treatment and diagnosis of cancer, as well as vital questions that you should ask your doctor if you are facing the challenge to overcome this physical one. A VITAL part of this book is how we MUST read, learn, and know as much as the doctor - so we can ask the most intelligent questions in order to receive the BEST treatment that is necessary for us individually. A LOT of it has to do with attitude, where NOTHING can stop you, and you CAN overcome the challenge before you. Written with truth, sincerity, dignity, and intelligence - exactly as I remember Fran to be when I worked with her on the set of 'The Nanny.' This book is just as fantastic as she is.
'Cancer Schmancer' is a tremendous inspiration, as well as a vital gift and contribution to all who need it.
Barbara Rose, author of 'Individual Power' and 'If God Was Like Man'
13 Sending a wrong message
I just briefly scanned through the book. I have to say I disagree with Fran that patients need to do their own research. It seems she is protecting the Doctors that should have known what diagnostic testing to do.
It seems there is no accountablity in the medical profession when physicans are not knowing what diagnostic test to perform.
I wonder if she pursued more than just a book.
14 WHAT A BOOK!!!
I have been a big fan of the TV series "The Nanny" for many years. I recently picked up a copy of this book, "Cancer Schmancer" from Amazon.com's website -- and read the book in its entirety in 3 evenings. I could not put it down. This book is funny, moving, interesting, and even entertaining (to a point)! Fran Drescher is an excellent actress (not just with words but with facial expressions and body language) and I could just picture hell reciting the book as I was reading it. It never ceases to amaze me how so many healthcare professionals can be so stubbornly and blatantly wrong about diagnoses! You trust your lives with these people -- they should be thorough and meticulous, but many are not. It's hard to believe unless you've experienced it OR you read Fran Drescher's trials and travails as she details her extensive battle with the American healthcare system to find a cause, then a cure, for her medical problem. A great read for any fan of Fran Drescher's, "The Nanny", or anyone who has had or known someone who has had or has cancer.
15 .......Brutally Honest
I have always admired Fran Drescher, especially after reading this book. Her honesty and humor help the subject matter of cancer seem to make things that happen almost bearable. Also, her advise to "get other opinions" is definatly one that everyone should follow.
16 Fran's Story of Cancer
I have been interested in "The Nanny" for about a year, and just love Fran! So, I was happy when I saw a copy of this book at Waldenbooks.
I enjoyed this book, but was hoping for a better picture of making "The Nanny." Being told that Charles [Shaughnessy]was her real-life husband, I thought she was making up a false name for him in this book.
During the sad parts I felt so sorry for Fran, yet I can only think of two right now. It's a very good read and I suggest it for anyone.
Her story of cancer experiences made me feel quite mixed. One of the teachers at my school died of cancer, so I felt happy for Fran-yet a bit annoyed at the same time because she had a MUCH better experience (seeing that she lived to write the book).
I hope anyone will take her advice for heart, to make sure they don't have cancer-just so that they can survive because there are people out there who care about them.
Overall: I loved this book, and I hope Fran keeps on writing her memoirs. She is such an incredible woman.
17 The Nanny Named Fran
I really feel that I got to know Fran Drescher from this book. This book about her cancer diagnosis and treatment makes for compelling reading. If you think this is nothing but a dark and dreary accounting of illness, think again. It is a story of love lost and found and of a woman who refused to give in to possible tragedy. Her family and friends are the kind of people you would want in your life and the support she received from them adds to this story. The style of the writing reads as if it's a long personal letter from Fran to me and I couldn't put it down. I definitely recommend this inspiring book. (By the way, what does Nu mean?)
18 As WHINEY as her voice
From the back cover, a letter from Drescher to the readers, I expected a funny story about a harrowing experience, but all I got was a juvenille story of an immature woman. She says that it took eight doctors to diagnose her cancer, but she doesn't even seem thankful for the one who finally did. She spoke kindly of her nurses, but never thanked them. My mother being a nurse, I was offended that she didn't even express her thanks towards a nurse who gave her an enema every day! On the back cover Drescher says "my attitude saved my life" but her attitude was pretty [cruddy] from where I stand. I know that cancer is upsetting and you have a right to whine and complain. I don't know how anyone can see this book as uplifting.
19 Enjoyable Autobiography
Fran Drescher's fans will surely love this book about her battle with cancer. Those of us used to seeing her as the funny and almost always upbeat Nanny, Fran Fine, on her hit TV show see real-life Fran in a different light. Just like all of us she's very human, with ups as well as downs, but she doesn't try to take our sympathy for herself. She's a very real person (albeit a pretty one who's always looked young for her age), and this second outing of hers as an author is also rather educational about cancer.
Fran doesn't go into all the technical details of what battling the disease is like, but she does warn and give advice to women experiencing similar symptoms. They just might save your life. Take it from Fran--she'd been misdiagnosed (or undiagnosed, as the case may be) several times before she could finally be treated.
Other events during this time of Fran's life are also shared with readers. Especially touching (particularly for animal or pet lovers) is the section about Chester, Fran's dog who starred in The Nanny. Although this book is good overall, women will probably generally appreciate it more than men, as it is about a form of cancer that attacks parts of female anatomy.
20 Classy take on a horrowing experience
If anyone can come up with a "fun" cancer story, and tell it funny, it's "The Franny." I got this on audiotape because reading it on paper could never capture that Voice. But after dozens of "star tragedies," I worried that it would be overly precious in coming down to "my level." Or, worse, Drescher might put on airs, acting like a bigger star than she actually is.
To my relief, she dodged these bullets elegantly. Her voice carries the day: she is of the common people because she talks like the common people. But she IS a star, and her story relates all-too-poignantly how the "star treatment" almost killed her.
This abridgement captures the spirit of the book and the lady so tangibly that I could have sworn she was standing there in the car with me on my commute.
In her own ummistakable words, Drescher indeed shows us how the "other half" lives, but also relates an unforgettable message for all of us -- that we must be vigilant about our medical care; that cancer is a great equalizer.
This book's bitter pills are sweetened to palatability by Drescher's sardonic wisecracking and, of course, the Voice. "Cancer Schmancer" is a mature and helpful book, fun and funny, but also thoughtful and meaningful.
21 Very Moving!
Fran Drescher's Cancer Schmancer takes a positive look at a very devistating disease. You will find yourself cheering for her page after page. Way to go Fran!
22 Very Moving!
Fran Drescher's Cancer Schmancer takes a positive look at a very devistating disease. You will find yourself cheering for her page after page. Way to go Fran!
23 Cancer Schmancer
I picked up this book 6 months ago or so, simply because I wanted to hear about her story..she has always struck me as a very gutsy,no nonsense gal, full of life and fun. I finally started reading it upon my own diagnosis of kidney cancer. I couldn't put it down. Even though I have a differant form of cancer than Fran, I really related to some of what she had to share. She couldn't say enough about how important it is to be your own advocate for getting the right treatment from the doctors who really are paying attention.Granted they are out there, but unfortunatly for some you have to wade through the lacking medical system and physicians, at a time when you cannot waste even a moment.She makes you laugh as well as be aware that it's not an easy road to walk...........but most importantly...never give up hope...speak up when you feel your not getting what you need....and be good to yourself......this is a must read. I have just shared my copy with a dear friend that may infact have this life shattering disease.....get a copy...today!!
24 Cancer Schmancer
I could NOT put down this book. Fran writes honestly and frankly about her ordeal and as you read, you see not the glamorous star, but a real person with thoughts and feelings like the average person. I admire and respect Fran's strength and honesty and I think this is a MUST read for everyone; sharing such a personal account of a very scary and trying time in her life took great caring and courage. Her book makes you stop and think withough making you scared or sad.
25 Informative, Educational, & a Revelation
Cancer Schmancer is a must read for all women. If you are the type of person who, despite your "gut" feeling, believes doctors "must" be right, you are in for the surprise of your life. Fran writes in a straightforward, plain English style and it is much appreciated. If you take anything away from this book, it should be LISTEN TO YOUR BODY. Force your doctors to listen to you, too. An interesting read through an intimate journey. The specific details that some may find uncomfortable are necessary for women to understand exactly what it's like to go through this type of illness. It's not all sunshine and roses (i.e., "and then we were able to have sex"). It's important for women to have details so they know what to expect if, God forbid, they are faced with this or any other type of feminine cancer. You'll enjoy the ride.
26 Cancer, Schmancer, and Bowel Movements
I have to admit I didn't care much for this book. So often, it's easier to sit around and cry about problems than to do something about them.
Fran gets the message across that women need to be more aggressive with their treatment, but it's all hindsight. Instead of going to parties and whining for two years, Fran should've hit the books and armed herself with research. I guess I was hoping to read a story about that kind of strength and intelligence. It's sad to see that Gilda Radner went through nearly the same situation ten years ago, and we haven't learned anything.
There was an attempt at humor, but the fact I knew she had cancer that wasn't being treated overshadowed the jokes. Additionally, I could've done without the details of an immoral lifestyle and bowel movement changes.
27 It is so important
It is so important that women read this book, especially if you have ever had "female" health problems. Fran talks about how many doctors she had to see before she was diagnosed and how all those extra doctors could have been cut out SO EASILY AND QUICKLY! A MUST READ for ALL WOMEN of ALL AGES!!
28 Definitely Fran's Story
Cancer Schmancer is a book worth reading. Fran Drescher writes honestly and with humor of her experiences.
I read Fran's story with interest as I, too, have had uterine cancer (in 1998). I, too, had difficulty getting a diagnosis (two years of doctor's visits and tests). I, too, had surgery to remove my uterus and ovaries.
But there is where the similarities begin to fade. I had chemotherapy, as mine was an aggressive form of the disease.
I photographed myself during my chemo, as my hair fell out and then, fortunately, grew back. Finally, I wrote a book about my experiences. It's called About My Hair : A Journey to Recovery and you can get it on amazon! Read both of our books for different versions of the same illness.
I finished my treatment quite easily and have been feeling fine ever since. Readers should be wary of expecting, or fearing, that they will have an experience similar to Fran's. I feel terribly sorry for her that she should have had to go through so much pain and suffering. What were her doctors doing? Such a long convalescence is NOT normal or necessary.
Read both books to see how different the experience of an illness can be from person to person.
29 Oy.
Fran Drescher made a name for herself on the hit CBS sitcom "The Nanny."
For years, her whiny accent and shenanigan-heavy onscreen romance with her English employer kept audiences rolling.
But, as we learn upon the opening of "Cancer Schmancer," Drescher's new autobiography, life was not all roses behind the scenes.
"The Nanny" became ratings-challenged, Drescher's marriage to her husband and business partner was beginning to fizzle out in the wake of her horrifying rape at the hands of some robbers at their home.
Then, to top it off, she was diagnosed with uterine cancer.
The title alone should warn people that "Schmancer" isn't exactly going to be a fun, fuzzy feelings sort of book, although the comedienne tries to lighten the mood right off the bat with a [weak] "dream sequence" in which Nicole Kidman appears at her bedside with a new movie script and Brad Pitt turns up, renouncing his marriage to Jennifer Aniston in honor of Fran.
Drescher tries to balance the story of a struggle which every woman potentially faces with her own tale of a celebrity who faces a medical emergency, and the two don't exactly mesh together.
But this is Drescher's story, and she apparently tells it true to form, so a little stardom thrown in isn't unforgivable.
The real sin of "Schmancer" is that its author doesn't know when to quit.
As Drescher recovers from her surgery, we get to hear about the importance of the first post-op bowel movement, and one of her nurse's dedication to making it happen for her.
The former Fran Fine (her character on "The Nanny") might just be sticking a little toe into "too much info" waters here, you say? Fine.
She plunges right in when it comes to giving us the stories of her sex life with newfound younger beau, a former co-worker on "The Nanny." (Relax, gossipmongers, it's none of the actors from the show. None of them apparently even bothered to send her get-well flowers, because none of the cast nets a mention.)
The BMs were gross but acceptable; however, no one wants to hear about Drescher's lack of sexual prowess or the way she and the new love of her life get it on.
If readers are diehard Drescherphiles, and willing to sit through her tales of poopage and heavy breathing, not to mention descriptions of childhood horror stories about the Drescher family's hospital visits and Fran's do-I-or-do-I-not-ever-want kids indecisions, then "Schmancer" gets an A.
The same goes for people who have found themselves perpetually cheerful for a while now, and are looking for a way to get down off the happiness. In addition to all of the heartbreak and pain already mentioned, "Schmancer" tells us how Fran's beloved dog, Chester, had to be put to sleep.
Here comes depression!
For the rest of us, this is one time Drescher was better off keeping her mouth shut.
30 thank you Fran
Cancer is a scary word, and you never know how scary till it hits home. My Mom was diagnosed with cervical cancer last year, and I didn't know what to do.
It seems everything on the internet is meant for Doctors or out there to scare you, I got this book on a whim.
I learned that cancer is not a death sentence, and I also learned how best to help my Mom.
It seems a lot of people in these reviews point out that she is a celebrity, and had options that "common" people do not have. I don't believe that ... I think that because she is a celebrity, she has been able to help more people then most could imagine.
This book saved my sanity,
31 Cancer Schmancer
I never read autobiographies, but I absolutely LOVED this book! Fran is so funny. I insisted on giving my husband chapter-to-chapter updates. He enjoyed it with me (probably because it was making me so happy.) Reading her book made me want to meet her so bad! I hope I get the privilege someday!
32 Cancer Schmancer
Good book, it makes you laugh and it makes you want to cry. Recommended!
33 Fancy Girl from Flushing
You cannot put this book down, if your love Fran you'll love this book. You can tell she's from Queens, she tells it like it is and makes you laugh in the process, as usual, her humor comes out with a touch of class and distinction. When she takes you through her Cancer Schmaner problems she somehow gives you the strength to continuing reading. She gives you the reason to believe if you are strong and believe in yourself and your needs, a woman can get through what she might think is a world coming apart on her. A woman in doubt is not a happy woman, look for the truth if your not satisfied with your pain. I find her to be a strong woman and being a Fancy Girl from Flushing myself, I know where she came from and I know where her talents took her, I look up to her for her beauty, her talent and her great wit for life and quick comeback thoughts. This book should be dedicated to woman who think they can't.
34 A cancer survivor's review
I was skeptical about this book but, after reading it, I'd recommend it to anyone. Not just cancer survivors. Even though my cancer (ovarian) required chemotherapy it was obvious Ms. Drescher went through the same horrible fear of being told "we found cancer". I enjoyed the humor and appreciate her efforts to promote cancer awareness. Great job Fran!
35 Fact filled, funny...oh yea, it's about cancer
Fran Drescher has written a fact filled, chronology of her journey through cancer and mixes in plenty of funny moments along the way. She tells us her symptoms and walks us through her multiple misdiagnoses. We share her disbelief when she's finally correctly diagnosed with uterine cancer.
What I liked about the book was the diary format. In plain language we learn what her body was doing, sometimes in excruciating detail. She got the cancer verdict early in the week and was scheduled to see the oncologist on Friday, the day "new patients" are seen. How she handled that is a good primer for anyone needing to see a doctor.
We learn how family and friends helped her during the difficult times and there's some celebrity scooping too.
This book is personal and to the point. For any woman who suspects she may have uterine cancer, this is a must read.
36 A Good Read On An Unpleasant Subject
Fran Drescher shows herself to be a skillful writer who deftly weaves in her personal life just prior to her diagnosis and the impact it had on her life. She doesn't try to please anybody through her writing, but tells it like it is, even revealing unflattering things about herself, like times when various treatments caused her to act crazy, and all of her many phobias which originated from childhood and added to her emotional turmoil during her struggle to get well. Her show biz background and privileged lifestyle made this whole distressing subject entertaining and bareable. I liked being able to laugh and also get a bird's-eye view into her private life, while reading an insider's story to surviving cancer. Her celebrity status made this a pleasant and easy read, and I applaud her for putting her story into print. Any woman who suspects she may have uterine cancer should read this.
37 good medicine
I'd recommend this book to anyone wanting to read a refreshing book about coping with cancer. I've read a lot of these books, and this is one of the better ones because it tells it like it is. There's enough gloom and doom out there; I, personally, prefer humor and candor. Some other reviewer said Too Much Information? Never! There's no such thing. If I'm going to spend my money (and time), I want to hear it all. I'm an adult. I can take it.
My two other top picks in this coping with cancer category:
AFTER LUCY by Daniel Jones
IT TAKES A WORRIED MAN by Brendan Halpin.
Buy them! Read them!
38 Great, Quick Read
A very quick read and glimpse into Fran Drescher's experience with uterine cancer. I admired her ability to clearly depict some of the more poignant moments of her cancer battle and recovery.
While some of the other reviews practically bash her, I doubt they've ever personally experienced a gynecological cancer. What drew me to this book was my own diagnosis of cervical cancer two years ago, around the exact same time as Fran's. She beautifully shared her feelings and emotions, and I had experienced virtually the same thing, so I felt better knowing someone else carried some of the anger that I did.
Overall, a great book and worth the read!
39 Too Much Information....But Still Enjoyed It!
Too Much Information! I now know many, many private details of Fran Dreschers life. I read some of the book to my husband, and he found it to be too much for a squeamish stomach! But, I liked her writing. Her personality comes through loud and clear. It was an enjoyabe, quick read.
40 Very Informative
Fran addresses questions and concerns that most people are afraid to ask in this very delightful audio cassette. This was my first experience with an audio book and I was highly impressed.
41 On Cancer Schmancer
I saw the cover of this book and had to look twice at the title.
I didn't want to believe that the Nanny had or was ill with cancer. Reading the first paragraph on the back cover sold me on the book which I promptly bought(being a huge fan and an ex-cancerian helped too!)
Fran shared a lot of the experiences and thoughts that I went through. Mis-diagnoses, breakup of long term partnership, ditto,ditto. Fran speaks of her family and friends supporting her, her fears of dying when she didn't know what was happening to her and her mistrust of the medical profession. I have cried and laughed reading this book and it is the only cancer recovery book I have read or am ever going to read, only because it was by Fran. Unless of course Barbra writes one. Oy!
42 Life and Illness after the Nanny
Fran Drescher's last season of her hit TV show was traumatic for many reasons, her separation, the studio's decision to cancel, and most of all, she wasn't feeling well. This is the story of her search for the cause of her illness, diagnosis and her amazing recovery. She is a really good story teller. I finished the book in one day. You really find yourself rooting for her and her new life. Good read.
43 Entertaining but Too Whiny
I wasn't a fan of the Nanny t.v. show but when I saw the book I started reading it at the bookstore and ended up buying it. I sympathize with her "year from hell" (i.e., cancer, show cancellation, divorce, death of pet, etc.) but she doesn't seem to get how privileged she was having the means to excellent and exclusive healthcare. She also had the luxury to recuperate at leisure, be pampered by friends and family which most working women don't. Also, as savvy as Ms. Drescher is, I wondered why she didn't seek alternative medical advice too?
It's funny in spots but the "poor me" drivel gets to you by the end of the book. Maybe if I'd known she had donated the proceeds of the book to a woman's cancer charity or something, I wouldn't be so hard on her. Instead, the cynic in me can see her on the talk shows promoting the book and herself with gusto.
44 Dishing with Fran
Congratulations Fran! Your book was wonderful. It was both frank and funny. I was so sorry you had to go through such an ordeal. I usually go to my doctor's appointments with a list of questions. They should be both respectful of us and our inquiries. I know how stressful it is to await test results. I sympathize with you about your beloved Chester. My family and I had to put our dog Muffin to sleep a few years ago. It was the heardest thing we ever had to do. Thank God for your great 2 year check up. I will continue to pray for you. Thanks for the Nanny. You and the cast were great. Looking forward to you next project. Fondly.
45 Take Control of Your Healthcare
Because my job is in a medical center, I was drawn to the book because of the author's message encouraging patients to speak up on their own behalf. No, doctors are not perfect, and it's important that everyone should feel they have the right to question these authority figures. As healthcare gets more and more complex, it becomes more and more important that each individual take it upon themselves to be responsible for the care they receive. If you have questions or concerns--say so--and if you don't understand the reply, ask again. Some patients feel they are betraying their doctor if they want another opinion about a diagnosis. That is not true--if you want another opinion and don't get one, you're betraying yourself. I found the book funny, revealing, and encouraging.
46 If you're looking for inspiration, it isn't here.
I agree with the editorial review above by Booklist's Ilene Cooper. This would have made a better article for a woman's magazine. There is not enough interesting material in this book to warrant 200+ pages.
I give it two stars: The first for the one good piece of advice that Drescher offers her readers, which is that if you are in pain or you know something isn't right with your body, don't let any doctor tell you it's normal. Get another opinion, and another, until you get to the cause of the problem. You are your own best advocate for good medical care. Aside from that important message, which can't be repeated often enough, there is virtually nothing inspirational about this book. The second star is for the fact that I received my copy at a benefit to help cancer patients, at which Drescher was the guest speaker, so I applaud her efforts in that regard.
The rest of the book is all about how tough it is to receive good care when the whole world is blinded by your celebrity status. Drescher offers more info on which celebrity friends she had lunch or dinner with before and after her various doctor's visits, who she traveled to Paris with after her show was canceled, etc., than she does on the actual cancer or any profound changes her illness brought about. Despite telling us that her good friends Donna and Danny Aykroyd spend half their lives protecting their privacy, Drescher doesn't hesitate to mention them in practically every chapter of her book. She chastises the press for the `feeding frenzy' that occurred when she and ex-husband Peter split up, and vows never to reveal such personal details of her life to the press again. Then in the next chapters, she goes into much detail about her bowel movements and her sex life with her 26-year old boy toy. One whole chapter is devoted to the death of her prescious 19-year old Pomeranian, Chester, and the endless search for a replacement dog--another Pomeranian in case you were wondering. Unless you're still mourning the cancellation of 'The Nanny' I don't recommend buying this book.
47 Oy!
I loved this book! It was easy to read, but yet gave a detailed account of the hell Ms. Drescher lived in leading up to the diagnosis and post-op. Sadly, her story is one of many out there! There are too many patients who are not diagnosed in time, who are not treated like human beings but like numbers by their physicians, patients who are not given the care and the love they deserve, not only because they are human beings, but also because they are ill, scared and feel alone and just need someone to lend an ear, someone that understands what they are going through. I recommend this book to anyone who cares and understands!
48 Oy!
I loved this book! It was easy to read, but yet gave a detailed account of the hell Ms. Drescher lived in leading up to the diagnosis and post-op. Sadly, her story is one of many out there! There are too many patients who are not diagnosed in time, who are not treated like human beings but like numbers by their physicians, patients who are not given the care and the love they deserve, not only because they are human beings, but also because they are ill, scared and feel alone and just need someone to lend an ear, someone that understands what they are going through. I recommend this book to anyone who cares and understands!
49 Just a bit too much whining...
Having always been a fan of "Franny Fine", I felt drawn to her literal work. What a let down. Having known individuals that went through the same surgery as she for the same reasons, reading this book has given me much more respect for those "non- celebs" who, I see now, were much stronger, without the luxuries Fran had. Not to dismis the ordeal she went through, the book just was not what I had hoped for. Even her literal sense did her no good to raise her appreciation in my eyes. It goes from slang to intelligence in one paragraph. I would however like to mention, as an animal lover, her chapter deicated to her dog, Chester. Although she is no poet either, it was very touching.
50 Rich Lady Whining
I had a very hard time feeling sorry for Ms. Drescher. She got a bruise on her hand from an IV so she ran off and went antique shopping. Months after her surgery she still couldn't sit in a luxury car without pain. Her maid had to unpack for her in her new beach house.
Poor baby!
What about the real world? If there are real women out there not being diagnosed, what will happen to them if they cannot afford to go to 8 or 10 doctors like our celebrity did? I felt as if she was making herself out to be a much bigger celebrity than she is and trying to impress us- if she wants to impress me, she can donate the proceeds of her book to cancer research.
51 Like Reading An Email From Your Best Friend
Reading this book is like getting a really long email from your best girlfriend - if she happens to be Fran Drescher! Imagine that when you do talk, you tell each other EVERYTHING, and that for some reason you guys have been out of touch for the last few turbulent years. Then, read on!
This book is a lot of fun if you enjoy contemporary autobiographies, an honest account over a struggle with and victory over a life threatening disease, an insider view into stuff celebrities deal with, and/or are just looking for a fun, quick read over a weekend. I loved it. Amazon had reeled me in by recommending it based on my high review for Michael J Fox's book - also a great read with probably a bit more depth than this one - but this one is tops for girl-talk.
52 Its better than giving flowers!!
As someone who has worked with hundreds of scientists and doctors helping to develop both treatments and possible cures to cancer, I believe that Fran's book is part of the arsenal against the war on cancer. It is important for patients to be PROACTIVE, get second and third opinions. I read her book and realized that it is a gift that she has that allows the reader to be able to laugh in a middle of a serious thought on cancer. I recommend Ms.Drescher's book to those who are suffering from not just from cancer but any chronic illness, there is a great deal to both learn from as well as utilize the power of laughter.
53 a must read for everyone!...
inspiring, honest, and heartwarming. Fran Drescher has done it again. Turned lemons into lemonade! I would strongly recommend this book to anyone that has had or has a loved one or has personally been touched by cancer or a serious illness. Fran is very open about her feelings and experiences. Additionally,
Ms. Drescher shows that being an advocate for yourself is one of the most important lessons in life.
All in all the book is valuable, honest, enjoyable, and informative. An easy read that should not be missed. Worth every penny!...
54 AUTHOR SCHMAUTHOR
I began reading this book with an open mind. I have always been suspicious of celebrities who publicize an illness, but I lost a close relative to cancer last year and I had heard Miss Drescher's book was very frank and so I thought I'd give it a try. While there was some basic information about what tests women should discuss with their doctors when they are experiencing similar symptoms as Fran, the overall content of the book revealed that this non-working actress is a self-promoting 'hero' who needs to reassure the public that she is still young and thin and isn't it shocking that someone like her could get such a dreadful disease?
She takes great pleasure in describing her verbal bashing of the doctor who finally diagnosed her. Shouldn't she be grateful? She implies over and over again that her blinding fame befuddled medical physicans and kept them from helping her. Isn't she cured? I have never seen a book published by someone who is so obviously desperate for validation that she is still young and vital in the media. The very fact that she is 44 years old yet is angered that doctors would dare suggest she could be perimenopausal is not only ubsurd but delusional and childish, and I won't even elaborate on the juvenile, graphic descriptions of her romance with a man sixteen years her junior. I found it interesting that he doesn't want to be named. Warner Books should be ashamed to have allowed this hasbeen to use public adulation and sympathy to attempt to boost her career and get her tuchas back on television again. Use your money wisely and check out Lance Armstrong's "It's Not About the Bike" or "Wit" by Margaret Edson. They are soul-fulfilling testaments to strength and character in the face of fear, instead of the needy tripe that Fran Drescher is selling to enhance her diminishing career.
55 Fran Drescher makes Cancer Schmancer a fun read
Fran Drescher uses humor to deflect the pain of not only her bout with cancer, but her life in general. Her book was educational, factual and entertaining. It was an intriguing read with lots of details about her personal life, which gave the book depth and meaning. What Ms. Drescher reveals in her candid remarks about herself though, is far more interesting then her struggle with cancer. It became obvious very early in the book that the reason Ms. Drescher never had children, was simply by not having a child she could always remain a child. Her need for constant attention from family and friends was well noted. Perhaps this is why celebrities become celebrities, so that they are always the center of attention. In true drama queen fashion, Ms. Drescher takes the most mundane events and parleys them into major spectacles. Her book is littered with first names of friends, who you know immediately are famous in their own right. Most are easily decipherable without much thought. It was apparent that Ms. Drescher is struggling with the fact that she has now reached middle age. At 42 years of age she chose a much younger man of 26 to date. Her fears about aging are universal fears that we all harbor. Ms. Drescher need not worry, she has aged beautifully. I found her book extremely enjoyable to read and would recommend it to anyone. Her overall message to take charge of our own lives, to read, research and take control of our destiny is excellent advise that should not be overlooked or ignored.
56 What every woman MUST read!
I read this in 2 days. Every female out there needs to read this book and learn to question their doctor instead of being afraid to. Not all doctors know or care about what they are doing!
57 Easy read, Funny while informative
Great read. Kept a heavy subject light and told it in a way women AND men could really understand what she was going through. Kept it real so that we could put her experience to use in case anything like that ever happened to one of us. Made me think to always get a second (and maybe 8th opinion) and to trust my body.
58 Excellent - lively, fun, and very real
This was a great book! First of all, Fran is a strong and very honest woman. That came through loud and clear in the book. She talks very frankly about her relationships, and herself. And, I commend the support of her family in this because she revealed a lot of personal information in this book - and I'm sure that it took great support from them to be able to do so.
This book is about empowering people, both woman and men. It's about taking charge of your life and your health care. It's a story of survival. It's also a story of coming to terms with who you really are and loving yourself.
Read this book if you need to find the courage to overcome something difficult - you will learn a lot from Fran!
59 Funny and heartwarming
Cancer Schmancer, by Fran Drescher is a funny, heartwarming, and essential book for the warning it provides.
At times you'll laugh out loud, more times you'll feel incredible sorry and anger at what (and who!) Drescher had to go through (NINE doctors before she came across one who gave her the very simple test that discovered the cancer growing within her).
While Drescher's writing style at times leaves much to be desired, the message that she keeps hitting home in the book is absolutely essential: for all their worth, doctors are not infallible; even they make mistakes or don't think of everything. Drescher keeps reminding us to trust ourselves and messages our bodies are sending us. If you don't think you're getting what you need from your doctor...go to another! And another, and another if necessary. An all-too important message that cannot be emphasized enough.
The inside looks into Drescher's celebrity are fun and help lighten up what could have been a thoroughly depressing tale.
A definite worth-read.
60 A 'Fine' Print
There are few books that make me cry, this however; is one that did! This book is written with such heart and honesty that I was overwhelemed at times with what Fran was forced to endure from the medical community.
This book flows so smoothly; it's as if Fran is sitting beside you sharing her experience with you. I finished her book in two days and when I read the last page, I wasn't ready to say goodbye.
61 Cancer Shmancer, The Nanny has much to teach us all.
We watched Fran Drescher for years as the street wise woman from queens on "The Nanny" who week after week taught the Sheffield kids invaluable lessons about life that couldn't be found in a book. But this time Fran's lessons can be found in a book, this book, Cancer Shmancer! Fran reminds us all that we can't just sit back and let others be in charge of our health. Gone are the days of the doctors who make house calls and most medical professionals are just too busy to concentrate solely on our problems. Fran teaches us to be persistent and to seek those answers if you still are being plagued by symptoms that doctors are quick to dismiss as stress or any other number of quick diagnosises that don't sit quite right with you. No-one knows your body better than you and Fran reminds us we must take an active role in our well being. It could just save your life. As grim a subject as Cancer is, this book is written in such an honest, forthright manner, that you can't help but walk away feeling positive about life and celebrating being alive. Fran reminds us all through her great humour and her willingness to share all, that whether you're a star in LA or an accountant in Ohio, we're all vulnerable to the challenges life throws are way. Whether off the air or on the air "The Nanny" continues to teach us to get back in the driver's seat, confront our fears and to be in charge of our lives. A must read for anyone.
62 Cancer Shmancer, The Nanny has much to teach us all.
We watched Fran Drescher for years as the street wise woman from queens on "The Nanny" who week after week taught the Sheffield kids invaluable lessons about life that couldn't be found in a book. But this time Fran's lessons can be found in a book, this book, Cancer Shmancer! Fran reminds us all that we can't just sit back and let others be in charge of our health. Gone are the days of the doctors who make house calls and most medical professionals are just too busy to concentrate solely on our problems. Fran teaches us to be persistent and to seek those answers if you still are being plagued by symptoms that doctors are quick to dismiss as stress or any other number of quick diagnosises that don't sit quite right with you. No-one knows your body better than you and Fran reminds us we must take an active role in our well being. It could just save your life. As grim a subject as Cancer is, this book is written in such an honest, forthright manner, that you can't help but walk away feeling positive about life and celebrating being alive. Fran reminds us all through her great humour and her willingness to share all, that whether you're a star in LA or an accountant in Ohio, we're all vulnerable to the challenges life throws are way. Whether off the air or on the air "The Nanny" continues to teach us to get back in the driver's seat, confront our fears and to be in charge of our lives. A must read for anyone.
63 another self-serving fluf piece
another self-serving fluf piece
extended Leno interview. nothing bad, just some funny stories which may or may not have happened to her mixed with some human interest. no mention made of why she moved out on her husband and moved into a beach-front mansion and moved her much younger 'personsal assistant' in. no mention of why Fran and her husband seperated, not divorced. nothing about the story she told on Stern's show... just fluff!
64 Life saver
A must read. This book inspired me to take charge of my health and keep my chin up during hard times. I laughed and cried. I want to support Fran on her journey to help others.
65 Totaly about Cancer
I agree with Generosa Van Decker. This Cancer Book is really about one thing - cancer. Its helpful in its ways about dealling with cancer it its affects on people and there lives. Fran deserves a medel for her heriocs and heroism.
Another thing thats good about this book is its inside cover its got a chart detailing the details that are coming about with cancer. I read this several times since the chart was good.
66 Cancer Schmancer
I found the book extremely entertaining, witty and detected a profound statement about survival. This young lady is gifted with not only good looks, but a delightful sense of humor and properness. The style is easy to read, and intensely satisfying...let's have some more.
67 Cancer Schmancer
I found the book extremely entertaining, witty and detected a profound statement about survival. This young lady is gifted with not only good looks, but a delightful sense of humor and properness. The style is easy to read, and intensely satisfying...let's have some more.
68 A teriffic read!
"Cancer Schmancer" was a refreshing read, composed beautifully by the talented Fran Drescher. Her writing was very coherent, as well as candid. Reading this book should put anyone who has cancer at ease. Initially, I never planned on reading this book. However, once I read the prolouge, I couldn't put it down. The friendly, warm way that she described her experiences made the book very appealing to read from beginning to end. I highly recommend this book to anyone. It is very interesting and a very refreshing piece of literature. Great work Fran!
69 Fran Drescher: an impatient patient lives to tell the tale
If justice delayed is justice denied, the same can probably be said for health care. Early diagnosis is the key to effective treatment of most diseases. In TV star Fran Drescher's case, an accurate diagnosis came just in time. Cancer Schmancer is Drescher's fascinating, first-person account of her two-year battle with uterine cancer.
If you are expecting a woe-is-me recitation of a celebrity's encounters with an uncaring and evil healthcare system, this is not the book for you. It is, instead, a medical case history told in a frank and wonderfully humorous style. And it is a call to arms to any woman or man who anticipates seeking medical care in the future.
Drescher describes her visits to a series of healthcare professionals in an attempt to deal with recurring gynecological symptoms. Good and competent doctors failed to screen her for uterine cancer because Drescher fell outside the statistical parameters for the disease ? she was too young and too slender to be at risk. Uterine cancer was finally identified after a relatively simple test.
Her encounter with cancer is placed in rich context, interwoven with stories about her close-knit family, her dissolving marriage, career challenges, a new romance, her beloved dog, and the comforts and importance of close friendships. This is important material. It's a reminder that context is important when dealing with disease. Anyone who has ever experienced the modern healthcare system knows that as patients, we are rarely viewed in context. Yet our life stories, our fears, our hunches and our observations are as important to effective diagnosis and care as the medications and surgical intervention we receive. Unless we learn all that we can about our bodies and advocate for ourselves, we may miss out on the genuine benefits that modern health technology has to offer.
In that sense, Cancer Schmancer is as much a book for health care providers as it is for patients and their families. It serves up a gentle but clear warning to medical professionals: pay attention to what your patients say; pay attention to what your patients know.
As writer of non-fiction, Drescher is no Joan Didion. But she is the ideal messenger for this sometimes-discomfiting subject. Over the past decade, she has managed to craft an accessible and self-deprecating image that belies her beauty and comic talent. With this book she has succeeded in producing an entertaining read from a traumatic and life-changing experience. Most important, Drescher has done some important homework for all of us. As future patients, we should all pay attention to what she has to say.
70 Fascinating, Gutsy and breathtakingly honest
What a brave heart warming story. Informative and uplifting, but scary in its reality. A must read for all people. Shows the need to take control of one's life.
71 Frans words help you through it every step of the way
It gives the reader the support and guidance that is sincere and understanding to the difficulties that one experiences internally. She holds back nothing. It is encouraging with a touch of humor that helps to get one through this difficult time. You don't feel alone. She understands!
72 BUY THE BOOK
Cancer Schmancer is a heartwarming and powerful personal account of Fran Dresher's trials and tribulations on her journey through cancer. This beautifully written book...in Fran's voice--details a process rarely told before...especially by someone as beloved as TV's "The Nanny". This is the story of listening to your inner voice no matter how many people tell you you have no idea what you're talking about...it's the journey of life experiences of a modern woman who is pressured to participate in the pitfalls of modern medicine...against all odds, Fran persists...and with the assistance of her inner voice and her supportive friends and family, confronts life changing experiences ...Cancer and Fear--both crippling...she emerges healthy, victorious and strong. Readers, audio listeners--people-- will be fascinated by this personal and spiritual quest from what once was loss to what is abundance and gratitude. Fran makes you FEEL...you laugh with her...you cry with her...you become a part of her...I highly recommed this book for mature readers of all ages. If you were always a fan of Ms. Dresher's--you'll be an even bigger one now and if you were never a fan before, trust me, you will be after reading Cancer Schmancer. I loved it.
73 If you love autobiographies, you will love this one.
I love to read first-hand accounts of those that overcome huge obstacles in life. This book tells us honestly about a beautiful love between two high school sweethearts destroyed by one tragic event that happened in the darkness of night in their own home, the pressures of keeping that marriage together while working together on a hit television show and then the breakup of marriage and the ultimate life-threatening event: Cancer. Dealing with two years of not feeling well, numerous doctors and the loved ones that thought Fran was losing it, she finally got a diagnosis and was able to move forward with surgery, treatment and the healing process. She has found a new love and shares with us many a personal moment. We experience her growth with her.
I read this book in one night and wanted to spend time with this woman. I believe she is brave and a hero, as well as a wonderful role model. Not to mention, she's funny.
I would highly recommend this book. It is a great read, as well as a wonderful, inspiring and enlightening gift.
74 Touching, funny, informative
Unlike other celebrity books that can sound stilted and ghost-written, "Cancer Schmancer" is alive with the humor, honesty and witty prose of its author: Fran Drescher. I loved her storytelling style, and I was really impressed by the candor of the book. She pulls no punches, and manages to write a book about cancer that is down to earth without being dull, touching without being sappy and funny without sounding like a stand-up routine. Go Fran!
75 Not Funny
Fran takes such a superficial approach to cancer and I must say I fealt deeply offended. I guess it is nice to laugh your way through an illness, but if you have ever had cancer you will know that it is not funny. The problem with the book is you can't make light of some things (cancer being one of them) and if the author had a better understanding of what people go through when they lose a loved one to cancer I think she would have written another book.
