Talk to Her (Hable con Ella)


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The lives of four characters flow in all directions, past, present and future, dragging all of them towards an unsuspected destiny. Golden Globe WINNER: Best Foreign Language Film. Academy Award Nominee: Achievement in Directing. Academy Award WINNER: Original Screenplay. Directed by Pedro Almodovar (All About My Mother, Flower of My Secret, High Heels).
1 Talk to Her...Almodovar's Masterpiece
This film truly deserved the Oscar for best foreign film, more, I feel than All About My Mother. This film is sensual, unique and poignant. The characters are so well drawn and unique. The cast is magnificent, and we watch them perform various forms of art, from traditional to modern, especially dance. Almodovar wraps and joins love stories around profoundly forward-thinking social statements like a female bullfighter (played by Rosario Flores), who is both believable and fascinating as one of the principals. In this film we are given the great gift of culture with some of the best artists and performances of today, in addition to a unique and touching human story of the one-sided love a disconnected young man has for a coma patient, formerly a dancer he espied through his front window. There is also a silent film within this film which is fine and comedic and erotic. This is artistic film-making at its best and should not be missed.
2 talk to him too
My favourite director appears to be saying listen to her and him, just as much as 'talk to her' - and him.

I am certain you will never be sure about the meaning of tears again.
Design? Sumptuous without a spare thread. Soundtrack? As integral as in all his work. Cast? Not a foot wrong as usual. I refuse to discuss particulars of any part of the film because it is so supremely integrated. You simply must see it.

I can't see however that Almodovar can be relegated to the old fogey's department - as other reviewers here seem to be doing by calling it 'mature'; his trademark twisted love of the ridiculous shines through - in the story line as much as in some of his funniest one-liners yet. Really now, when you try to tell the plot line it is just so "off" ;-) I bet he is having a sly chuckle at all the high-art critiques. And I bet that the Marco y Alicia affair is going to be rocky with Katerina the ballet mistress threatening to be every bit as obsessive as Benigno. As she says: -
Nothing is simple. I'm a ballet mistress, and nothing is simple -

Last words for those who are morally outraged: How? Benigno, gentle dear too-obliging Benigno, falls on his sword for the dubious sin of having been too isolated from society to be able to fight for himself, let alone learn how to control tabu erotic feelings. Thus society gets double vengeance. And the bull avenges the machismo terrorising of his race (I could barely make myself witness the bull"fight" scene with Lydia triumphing over the crippled bull) by dealing death to Lydia.
So why am I still crying?
Six stars because the transfer to disc is top quality and the sound files are immaculate.
3 Memorable
This is the only movie in the past 5 years that has had a profound effect on me. If you watch it, you'll never forget it - the story is THAT good. Outstanding!
4 AWAKEN
Eloquent and strange film about two female comatose patients and their respective partners who wait, administer nurturing care, and indeed, 'talk to her'. This film is laid out like an inviting satin bed sheet with seductive comfort zones and gorgeous sexual images; you won't soon forget Rosario Flores decked out in her bullfighter garb, until more fundamental plot developments disturb the sedate quality in the second half. The Romeo and Juliet-like denouncement seemed beneath the film's objective, but the final moments are stirring and the use of subtitles, especially at the end where love is the silent communicator, is very moving.
5 good accident
I actually rented this movie by accident. I was hesitant to watch it but I eventually gave it a chance and I was pleasantly surprised. The movie was excellent. The story was so unique. I mean a love story about a guy in love with a comatose girl? But it works.

I felt so bad for Benigno. I knew that it was wrong for him to go after that girl the way he did. It was such a borderline situation between lovesick and obsessed. One minute he's a caring nurse, the next a stalker. But I knew he was sincere. So sincere was he that I was hoping he would take his "sleeping beauty" and run away. I highly recommend purchasing this film or at least renting it. It's a fine example of great cinema.
6 An elephant sized dump....
yea! The whole chain of events was too farfetched to really pull you in but a decent movie nonetheless...
7 Hope and Despair
Like the film AMORES PERROS, HABLA CON ELLA brings separate lives together in one compelling plot sure to take your breath away. The four main characters exhibit a love for one another that is not only unique, but fascinating to watch. This film is great because of the dilemmas it presents. Love can be disastorous; this film knows that all to well. At the same time, love pierces boundaries nothing else could. HABLE CON ELLA's bittersweet beauty is a great credit to the director and all of Spanish film.
8 Another film that should come with a warning label ....
Certainly one must love tragic character studies in order to even get close to this film ..... All the characters except our hero, Benigno, the young man perfectly happy with his lot in life, of caring for brain dead patients selflessy, are pretty sad. None of them really are willing to accept their life and see shortcoming for which they see little hope .....


The critical viewer may look on this film and say 'ignorance is bliss' but no we can not say that Begnigno is ignorant but rather he has mastered to ability to make the absolute best of even the most dire situations. Without giving away the story, even in jail the enthusiasm for life and his love of a young paralyzed dancer does not push him into despair....


I enjoyed the film but again it's probably not everyone's cup of tea ....
9 A complex film with an uneasy twist of plot
Talk to Her by Almodovar is really an exceptional film but be warned that the moral issues are disturbing. He does a great job of laying and intertwining the lives and stories of all the characters.

Basically the story is of two men and the relationships they have with two women in comas in a rehabilitation hospital. Marco has been in a stormy passionate relationship with Lydia, a fighter of bulls. Benigno, a mousey timid fellow, is the nurse for a beautiful young dancer who suffered brain injury after being hit by a car.

As Marco suffers with guilt and fear, Benigno urges him to talk to Lydia even if he thinks she can not hear him. What wonderful advice! We have known for the past 100 years, since it was discovered by Freud, that talking can cure. While Marco's relationship with Lydia was full of passion and conflict, Benigno's relationships iwth Alicia, the dancer, is more complex. He lived in the apartment across from her dance studio and came to worship her from afar. After she is hit by a car he becomes an orderly in the hospital where she lays. Benigno comes to totally worship this beautiful unconscious girl. He bathes her and moves all her joints and muscles daily so that her body does not stiffen in her unconscious state.

Then it happens. Alicia becomes pregnant while still unconscious. To say that Almodovar elicits a broad range of emotions from the viewer at this point is an understatement.

The viewer has been led to believe that Benigno is gay but in usual Almodovar style, he is very fluid in the way he characterizes sexuality. His sexuality seems to be constructed by fantasy.

On one side, Benigno's behavior was criminal, it was rape. He had sex with an unconscious women. Yet, we have the uncanny feeling that this timid shy zero nothing of a man was powerless in the presence of the vast beauty of his young patient. To make the issue more complex, after Benigno is imprisoned a series of good events occur as a result of his nursing and his one-sided rationship with Alicia.

Alicia was a double victim. A talented young beauty is struck down and becomes unconscious yet still alive. Then she is sexually violated while unconscious. But is Benigno a monster? He seemed powerless when he was attracted to her beauty before the accident and he placed himself in a situation where her powerful presence eventually resulted in a terrible situation, destructive to all parties involved.

In some ways the behavior of both men, watching carefully over the women they love, reflects man worship of the female. Even in a coma Alicia exerted the power of the beautiful woman. I know that my last comment will spark the ire of some but lets face it, beauty is a form of power.

All About My Mother is the only Almodovar film that I think is better than Talk To Her but both are exceptional films.
10 Very Compassionate: Another Masterpiece from Almodovar
The film opens with a stage production by an acclaimed choreographer Pina Bausch. A woman, perhaps blind or dazed, wanders around on the stage while a man tries to move chairs and other things not to let her hit them. What does that mean?

You will have your own answer later on, but the film here introduces us two men -- Marco and Benigno, both watching the production as the audiecne. Months later, these two men meet each other at a medical clinic, where Benigno, a nurse working there, is taking care of a comatose woman Alicia. Marco, whose severely injured girlfriend Lydia (and she is also in coma) is now taken to the place, is advised by kind-hearted Benigno to 'talk to her.'

The film tactfully reveals how come Benigno has been nursing Alicia for more than more years, or how Lydia came to be wounded like that. And by the time you see what happen to these four characters in the following chapters, you will why Pedro Almodovar is now thought one of the most accomplished film directors in the world.

The film looks often melodramatic (in a good sense, of course) and sometimes very surreal, but it always is beautiful, and rich in tone. The four actors are all impeccable (plus special guest Geraldine Chaplin), especially Javier Camara as Benigno, and Leonor Watling as ballet dancer Alicia.

There is one comical (and very sexually explicit) black-and-white part called 'Shrinking Lover,' which parodies old silent film style. It is funny, but later you will find that its hidden meanings are so serious; it is shocking, audacious, and even horrible.

And then, you will know that this is an Almodovar film, unconventional, daring, but somehow manages to be compassionate. Though 'Talk to Her' is not his most daring work, it still shows that only Almodovar can tell this bitter-sweet love story, with his taut storytelling skills and confident touch. The film is painful and moving, but finally very rewarding.
11 Yet another film
that manages to self-destruct. Again, like many of Almodovar's movies,we start out with a fascinating premise, very nice camera work and a decent cast. Then the whole thing quickly takes a sharp turn into bizzaroland and never comes back. And the viewer stops caring. While there's certainly nothing at ALL wrong with artistic and/or deep films, they still, due to the medium, have to be accessible. Habla con Ella is not. Yes the theme is apparent to anyone with a working brain, but that doesn't make it easier to watch. Movies shouldn't ever be so much work unless they're intended for a severely limited audience.
12 ALMODOVAR's WORST!!!
The only reason this movie gets one star is because it is its lowest rating. I am a HUGE Almodovar fan and I find that this is his WORST MOVIE EVER! It's only saving grace is the small silent movie that is completely out of place in this hideously bad film. I found the acting to be very poor. I cannot understand for the life of me how this movie won two Oscars. If you want to see a truly unique Almodovar film rent "Matador" or "Live Flesh". Even "Kika" is far superior to this piece of trash. Don't waste your money on this garbage.
13 MOVING!
I found this movie very moving, but slow moving. Nevertheless, a very interesting film. Say what you may about Almodovar, his films are controversial. There is a scene that stays with me, where a guitarist is playing a song that seems to convey the protagonist's feelings. It is an old Mexican song entitled "Coo Coo Roo Coo Coo, Paloma" (or "Cu Cu Ru Cu Cu, Paloma"). I can't seem to find a CD out there that has that song on it, other than the soundtrack of the movie. I'm sure there are some CD's by various artists released with this song. I wish I knew where to get one/them. I'm eager to see what Almodovar comes out with next: "Movie Viewers on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown"?
14 The supreme masterpiece of Almodovar
Almodovar reached the highest peak with this imaginative, potent, original and powerful movie.
A disturbed man of introspective character falls in love with the woman of his dreams , his muse .
Suddenly she will have an awful accident who will allow to Almodovar to make an intimate jouney through the psiquis and the hidden feelings of that anonymus guy who will become in his fellow guardian .
The caleidoscopic , arresting and surrealist images will envolve the viewer in a complex web of unthinkable situations in which the love and death will act as a perfect syncronized mechanism of watch .
This film awarded the best original script , but in my personal point of view , this work is by far the best achievement of the notable career of this talented and irreverent film maker in this well gifted generation of spanish directors.
Superb in all its powerful meaning .
15 Banal and Perverse
Pedro Almod—var's movie about the twists and turns of the human psyche and the complexities of intimacy. Although the film is well directed, the plot and theme is of such a perverse nature that I cannot give it the rating it would otherwise deserve. In addition to being somewhat predictable, the movie comes out as nothing more than vulgar cinema attempting to make the grotesque appear acceptable if not noble.

Almodovar tries to make the demented and perverse character of Benigno (Javier Camara)appear as a sympathetic fallen hero which he cannot be. Benigno's actions are harldy the inescapable dilemmas Oedipus encountered: they were conscious choices. Benigno's actions can only be seen as morally unjustifiable and beyond redemption: no matter how hard he tries, Almodovar's subsequent attempt at portraying Benigno's self-inflicted demise as a tragedy fails because it can only be seen as a just punishment. Trying to further present Benigno as a fallen hero because his crime, by chance, allows Marco (Dario Grandinetti)to find his true love is but a failed attempt. One cannot justify the most vile criminal acts by the positive occurrence of chance and mere coincidence.

The movie's suggestions as to the twists of fate and how such could justify such sick criminal conduct is utterly naive, perverse, and grotesque. In short, the storyline itself is nothing more than trash. Its "creativity" shows more a lack of imagination: as if the story writer got tired of old noble themes and had to go find new ones in the depths of the morally revulsive to pass as novel and creative.


16 A compelling and tragic masterpiece
A quick synopsis: "Talk to Her" follows the tragic paths of four people: Marco and Benigno, Lydia and Alicia. Marco falls in love with Lydia, a female bullfighter. Benigno becomes obsessed with a dancer, Alicia, whom he can see from his apartment window practising in a studio. A car knocks Alicia down and Benigno becomes her nurse. Lydia is badly gored by a bull. Both women slip into a coma and it is in the hospital that the two men meet. Without giving the plot away, they both lose the woman in their lives, but they find friendship with one another.

Phew! Still with me? As with most of Almodovar's films, there are subtle depths that require repeated viewing to appreciate them fully. Almodavar deftly weaves the separate strands of the complex relationship of the four leading characters into a tightly focused and compelling piece of story-telling. Sad and uplifting, ironic and sympathetic, touching and unsentimental, this is a wonderful film. The acting is first-rate; Alberto Iglesias' score is enchanting, and Javier Aguirresarobe's cinematography is easy on the eye.
17 "Nothing is simple."
Pedro Almodovar's "Talk to Her" is a disappointing follow-up to the director's much-superior "All About My Mother" (1999). While this outing aims for the same emotional bullseye that the previous film hit, it misses the mark by incalculable lengths. The end result is a mess of a film that is just all over the place.

Writer Marco Zuluaga (Dario Grandinetti) meets male nurse Benigno Martin (Javier Camara) after Lydia Gonzalez (Rosario Flores), a famous female matador, is gored. Staying at Lydia's bedside, he notices that one of the other patients on the same floor is a ballerina named Alicia (Leonor Watling) who has been in a coma since she was involved in a traffic accident. As Marco spends more and more time at Lydia's bedside, he starts to develop a deep friendship with Benigno who displays a similar devotion toward Alicia. Both men speak of their innermost feelings to their comatose companions which helps them to bring their lives into better focus. However, the friendship between the two men is severely tested when Benigno's relationship with Alicia takes a dark turn.

"Talk to Her" offers a unique take on the nature of companionship as its two male leads find some meaning in their lives by spending time with companions who may never be aware of their presence. It also explores the more feminine aspects of the male persona as both men assume the caretaker roles typically assigned to women and find satisfaction in it. However, when "Talk to Her" begins to examine the obsessive turn of one of the relationships, it becomes muddled. Instead of just being content with chronicling the nature and dynamics of male-female relationships, the film introduces a moral dilemma into the proceedings that adds a sinister undercurrent to the story. In essence, a strong character study film transforms into a morality tale that asks the viewer whether a wrong can be truly considered a wrong when it produces a positive outcome. This strange turn is not for the better. In the end, watching "Talk to Her" just feels like watching two disparate stories clumsily edited together.
18 Amazing!
When I heard the description of this story, I thought it sounded boring, and even a bit silly. But I saw it on friends' recommendations, and I was blown away! I don't buy many movies, but after renting this one, I was more than happy to make this purchase.

It is difficult to describe the appeal of this film. The acting is great, and the story is very well told, but I think the thing that sets this film apart is the characters. Almodovar somehow brilliantly manages to make you feel admiration, pity, and even anger at these people (often simultaneously).

This is absolutely one of the best films I've seen in a long time. Rent it, buy it, borrow it, but whatever you do, WATCH IT!


19 Almodovar's continuing quality
Benigno (Javier Camara) is a nurse who takes care of former dancing student Alicia (Leonor Watling), who is in a coma. He first sees Marco at a ballet, crying at a particularly ineffable part of the odd proceedings. They finally meet at the hospital, where Marco has come to visit his girlfriend Lydia, a famous matador who was gored by a bull and is also comatose. The two men share the stories of their women and, although they feel differently about the abilities of the women to understand being spoken to, remain friends -- even through an intense discovery that takes the film in another direction.

Considering that the women's portraits are on the DVD cover, Talk to Her is really about the men and their relationship. The focus is primarily on Benigno and his growing love for Alicia -- we learn more about the beginnings of this in flashback -- and how his caring for her in the hospital is his way of showing it. Camara has soft eyes and a sweet face, which gives Benigno an almost childlike innocence that is needed for us to find him sympathetic, so that we don't question his motives for involving himself so closely with Alicia.

I always enjoy Pedro Almodovar's films because they are never what I expect a film to be. He continually comes up with off the wall storylines, and his characters never act the way that "normal" people would. Plus, there's always a liberal dose of nudity featured (this time of the beautiful Watling), which never hurts.

One excellent example of this quirky sexuality comes in the middle of Talk to Her, when Benigno describes a film he saw involving a woman and her shrinking husband. The tiny man is shown crawling over his wife's naked body, trying his best to pleasure her. In the end, after some intense exploration, he gives himself fully to her. If this scene didn't so obviously involve a staged set, there is no way it would have escaped with an R rating. But even that is a metaphor to the story, related to Benigno's relationship to Alicia. And it is that sort of writing that is truly Almodovarian and which I was glad to see finally recognized with an Academy Award.


20 Great movie.....
This film creeps up on you and is absolutely spellbinding. I's all about friendships and relationships...The most sensitive film I've seen in a long time!
Almodovar has matured into the likes of Fellini, Bu–uel etc.
21 An engaging, quirky film
There are 4 main characters to the story but each one is engaging in his/her own way. None of them possess "perfect" good looks but the character development and the plot and all those things that go into enhancing the movie : the cinematography, the score... just all blend together to create a very interesting film with interesting characters, moving the viewer along the peaks and the lows of each scene. At times it really made you think, other times, its pure scandal and quite thought-provoking, yet it does all this on a very basic and powerful level that can reach all types of audience. I don't know why some of the critics complain about this film having no "meaning" or purpose. Can't a good film be about the idiosyncracies of everyday life itself? Surely not every good film must be full of preach and talk about purpose... Some other critic said it makes no sense that the bullfighter was afraid of the snake... Does it ever make sense to you why some people are afraid of cockroaches and yet are not afraid of dogs and vice versa? The bottom line is, it doesn't always have to "make sense". Life just doesn't always make sense! People aren't always rational!
22 In my opinion,it's not good.
I like just the opening scene of the movie,but all other part is so boring.I hate many nonsense scenes;For example,the scene that the bull fighting woman runs from her house because she's scared of a snake.,another is the scene when the mc tries to pull her guest in the talk show until she falls down on the floorThese are just the example.I'm very disappointed with this movie.I wasted my time also.The award achieved does not guarantee whether it's good or bad.
23 On top form....AGAIN!
Almodovar never lets me down.
This incredible film is about a guy whose wife (a female matador!) is in a coma after an accident, and a male nurse who falls in love with his patient (also in a coma). They two guys become friends and the film develops in typical Almodovar style, leading to a shocking event. This is dealt with (as usual) in a sympathetic and understanding manner, and I found myself feeling some empathy for the character that had overstepped the boundaries of normality.
But thats Pedro's `thing'. What is normality when it comes to man and life!
The musical score is worth mentioning here too - its stunning.
24 What does it all mean?
I think there is a tendency among critics, reviewers, movie-goers to rate a foreign film slightly higher than English-speaking counterparts. Something is mysterious, culturally refined, elevated in sometimes incomprehensible way. It's truly different so it must be good. All of these approaches with Almodavar's "Talk To Her," prove faulty. In the end, the movie, with me at least, just didn't connect.

The plot comes across as a contrivance, a contrivance that doesn't necessarily work. Two women are placed in the same hospital in a coma. One is a dancer, one is a bullfighter. Two men stand vigil waiting, talking, watching, wanting above anything for their objects of affection to wake up. The two men gain a confidance with one another, a bonded friendship, and the story plays out with different pathways taken, paths not always moral, not always sane.

I believe from this we are supposed to get a juxtaposed look at different relationships, communication, what is love, and all this other deep meaning of life pondering stuff. That seems to be the gyst of things at times in foreign films, we English speakers have this general sense that it's trying to say something deep if we could just stay awake through the droning plot to decipher the undecipherable. In the end, I found "Talk to Her" leaving little impression and stiving to hard to make a revelation. A revelation on what...I'm still not sure.

If you are heavily into foreign films, you may find this one interesting. If you aren't, you just may want to rent this one if you are an insomniac.


25 Probably the best Almodovar (and Spanish) film
I have been nearly as impressed by this film as by the reviews. First, I would talk about the film, as it was my intention.

Talk to Her has a memorable plot. It really deserves the Oscar it got in 2002. Some other great things are its music, art direction and photography.

It is not a long film. The complexity of the main character's mind is the reason of the first hour of the film. The way he introduces the other man how to care his patient is presented slowly, but every step has its reason. Sure he has got a perverse mind in the end, but there is no reason to consider this is a perverse film...

After this, I cannot resist to "review some reviews". I think this film is morally irreproachable. The rapist, finally pays a price and you can feel sorry about him, but this is not a way to justify his behaviour. You can understand him in some way but he is clearly guilty of what he does.

In any case, if you consider this film makes you throw up, what about all war films?


26 Artsy without the Fartsy
A thought-provoking piece of work I found enlightening and engaging. You have to watch the movie from beginning to end to understand the plot. Along the lines of tragedy come friendship and a little sadness as two men share their hopes and worries about the comatose women they love. This movie is very well done, colorful, ironic and sweet. A refreshing change from action-packed, formulaic mainstream films we've become used to.
27 people who have nothing
People seem to love or hate this movie. I loved it, my #1 movie of the year. I need not do a plot summary. The dance and music are gut wrenching. And remember what Benigno says (ironically referring to himself) "I identified with the Cubans. People who have nothing invent everything."
28 Nope, didn't like it
I actually had to watch this film because of my job. I never liked Almodovar's films because his "women" are not even real characters. Here, both were in comas (previous films, they are victimized, molested, etc). This "kind" male nurse STALKED the girl, entered her home under false pretenses, entered her bedroom, saw her naked, then later bathes and dresses her while she's in her coma. It's like the only way he can have her is like this. He never wanted an equal, he wanted someone dependent (there seem to be no strong women in Almodovar's films).
As for the "erotic" silent film in the middle...why? Why was it there? Sigh.
29 are you joking?
this is insane! am i the only one who notices how horrible this film was? i was getting ready to see something great and instead i was landed with a crappy 2 hour long movie about nothing. the first hour was totally irrelivant. Please tell me, what was the plot? the first hour why was that necessary? people rave about how it expressed love and the stages of adoration yet the first part of the movie, first hour, was about absolutely nothing. Then all of a sudden, the whole "unexistant plot" changes and we are then exposed to a sort of sweet story about a man who is deeply in love with a woman in a coma... if that was the plot, fine, but why stick that horrible and waste of time first hour! please explain this to me, if this is this man's best movie, it makes me wonder what his other movies were like because i can hardly imagine something worse that Habla Con Ella..

... for those who feel that the "rape" was violent or offensive, please not, there was NO violence in the movie, the man by the way if you didnt notice because the movie was so boring, was actually very good to alicia and in the twisted sort of way his raping, if that can be called raped, was what brought the 4 year sleeping beauty back to reality...

am i wrong?


30 One of the Most Beautiful and Vivid Movies
This is an unbelievable account of a single male nurse living with his mother who falls in love with a ballerina he watches from his apartment window. He stalks her until she is in a car accident and she lies in a coma. Ironically, he becomes her nurse. Another man falls in love with a female matedor and she becomes gored by a bull and lies in a coma next door to the ballerina. The two men become friends and from there the story becomes intertwined with drawing a line between what is love and what is too much. Nothing like you have seen before!
31 Captivating and emotional-even to a "non-artsy" guy
My town doens't get many of the limited, non-mainstream or so-called "artsy" flicks, but they aren't my cup of tea anyway.

Deciding to make myself look the part, I picked up this DVD and found it quite good. I'm not familar with the director, so I know nothing about how this stacks up to his other works on any terms.

The film begins to tell two storIies that eventually intertwine, and the two respective main characters become friends. Our hero is Marco, a journalist, whom we identify with because he is strong (despite that we see him cry in the first 3 minutes) and gentle, and more level-headed than Benignon (not sure I spelled that right), a male nurse.

Benignon is caring for a comatose dancer whom he has been infaturated with for some time. We see him as childlike and obsessive, but not in a bad way. We feel sorry for him in a helpless kind of way, due in no small part to the brilliant acting. He meets Marco, who is grieving his girlfriend who has also fallen into a coma after a bullfight.

The men's relationship is insightful, non-pretentious male bonding. We are wary, as Marco is, of Benignon. We are unsure of his sexuality and when his meekness may break into an unspeakable act.

Here's the low-down on the much-talked about sexual content of the film. Firstly, there is no sex, but there is a rape, which is not shown. Because we can rest assured that the rape was not violent, I don't see what the big deal is. It was not a plot device either, but a believable and consequential event. There is a magical realist scene in which a man crawls inside a woman's vagina. The scene is only vaguely sexual, more exploratory than anything, and is really too weird to be offensive to me.

The film is in Spanish, a language which I have not studied. It is quite powerful and there is nothing really overbearing about it. The drama is sincere and effective, the dialogue and acting natural and believable, and competently filmed, although in this genre of film, that is a minor requisite. The tragic events don't drag the film down into gloominess or bitterness. In fact, it is still overall rather hopeful and pleasing, as was ONE FLEW OVER THE CUKOO'S NEST.

This is a given for art-house enthusiasts, but those mainstreamers looking to expand their horizons could do well to check out TALK TO HER


32 2.5 stars for this entertaining and divisive film
It seems that people are of two minds about this film; either they think it was offensive ("glorifies rape"), or they think it was one of Almodovar's best films (part of his "mature stage"). I will offer a third view: like all of Almodovar's films, it's entertaining but ultimately trivial; not even worth the fuss of such serious discussion.

Habla con Ella certainly marks Almodovar's "mature" stage, in the sense that the music and themes are more serious and less neurotic or whimsical, and the production value looks to be at an all-time high for his films. Perhaps this is because he recently turned 60. But despite this, his consistent trademark is still maintained here: the film is very entertaining yet never displays any poignancy that could elevate it to classic status.


33 Disgusting
This movie was disgusting, I almost threw up in during several scenes. The implication that one of main characters actions as a rapist and a stalker as love makes me sick.
34 I love Almodovar but...
Typically, I enjoy Almodovar movies very much. I have been a fan since the 80s with Women on the Verge, Labyrinth of Passion, etc. However, I found Talk to Her disturbing, and not in a good way. Almodovar is usually provocative and interrogates social and cultural assumptions to good end. In this case, he misses the mark.
35 Very accessible and thematically profound
Pedro Almod—var, the famous Spanish director, is an auteur, and so you like his style or you don't. He makes rather frantic and gender-based movies, such as "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown", which I liked but found rather like a chicken with no head, and "Tie Me Up ! Tie Me Down !".

Apparently he's softened up at this stage. Talk to Her has not much in the way of quirky female characters : in fact, the two women are in a coma. Marco, a journalist and travel writer, is fascinated by Lydia, a famous female bullfighter, and tries to get an interview with her. He gets more than that, as they become a couple. But she is gored in the arena and falls in a coma.

At the hospital, Marco meets Benigno, who works as a nurse for Alicia, a ballerina also in a coma. It becomes quickly obvious that Benigno's relationship with Alicia is a bit more than nurse-patient. Despite himself, Marco takes to a friendship with Benigno, but events will conspire to complicate this seemingly idyllic situation.

Talk to Her is a tightrope event. Almod—var's story is at once touching and comedic, profound and shallow, and you can take it as great camp or a great drama. The theater plays, and the silent movie parody that Benigno goes to see, also reflect this duality. They are ironically funny, and somewhat ridiculous, but they are also pregnant with significance and can be taken quite seriously.

Look at the scene, for example, where Marco goes to Lydia's house to kill a snake because she has a snake phobia. After doing the deed, Marco sheds a tear. This is campy, but there is also a mystery : why is he crying ? This is answered later in the story, of course, but that's not my point. It's easy to slip from one to the other. It's ironic but also very honest.

Without wanting to spoil the ending, when Benigno commits an act which we would not expect, he suddenly appears to us very differently - it's very incongruous but also chilling. Like most of Almod—var's movies, Talk to Her is about relationships, but this time about relationships when there is no one answering you on the other side, and how we can forge worlds for ourselves outside of social mores and seem perfectly normal... but also how easy it becomes to fall to the other side of normality.

To someone who is unfamiliar with Almod—var, this is probably the best movie to start with. It's as colourful and stylized, but it's also very accessible and thematically profound.


36 His tamest so far . . . so stop your whining!
I can't understand all the angry complaints and bad reviews people are giving this film based upon its subject matter. Obviously those who are complaining ARE NOT familar with Almodovar's films and HAVE NOT followed his career from the begining. Sure the subject matter is a bit shocking and you can be appalled by the sympathetic slant Almodovar takes towards Benigno but by far this is the tamest film Almodovar has made!
In Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down a porn star is kidnapped, raped and falls in love with her abuser! In Dark Habits, nuns run a half way house for female drug addicts however the nuns are supplying the girls with the drugs and Mother Superior is a lesbian who seduces them. I could go on and on. So if you find this film appalling, then Almopdovar most certianly isn't the director for you. However, if you're open minded, adventurous and interested in a thoughtful, beautifully shot, well acted film that will have you coming away emotinally touched by the characters then I highly recommend Talk To Her to you.
37 Almodovar's Brilliant Meditation on Human Connections
The most important consideration to keep in mind when watching Almodovar's penetrating film, "Talk to Her" is that the film, the plot, and the characters should not be viewed in a literal sense, but rather symbolically, almost allegorically. The two ballets that bookmark the film, as well as the silent film within the film, represent the messages that the diretor is attempting to convey; that being the navigation of the obstacles one encounters in relationships and living itself, and the various ways humans attempt to connect, learn about each other, and overcome the many obstacles.

Almodovar makes clear that this need for connection transcends the pat male/female roles and even the accepted notions of human sexuality and sexual orientation. It is no accident that among the characters are a male nurse, a female matador, a seemingly macho travel writer who cries when sad memories are awakened, and women in comas as the objects of affection. Almodovar brilliantly turns all "acceptable" roles on their ears and categorically proclaims that true love is spiritual and can exist and be fueled by many seemingly unuusal situations. The need for human connection supercedes humanity's constant efforts to dictate what constitutes a "normal" relationship.

"Talk to Her" is a fascinating exploration of human loneliness and the need to connect in any way possible. It is one of Almodovar's most poetic, enigmatic and affecting films.


38 excellent, excellent, excellent
The other night at dinner somebody asked what everyone thought the best movie of the past two years was. Somebody came up with "Mulholland Drive," and most everyone agreed that this was a good choice. Then a few minutes went by, and it hit me: "Talk to Her." I presented that answer to the table, and everyone agreed with great enthusiasm.

I think it's hard for a movie to be very serious without being dreary, pretentious, or melodramatic. Almodovar's made that rare thing, a truly great film, which deserves to be held up alongside the great works of art and literature.

I recommend this movie without reservation.


39 Not getting it, eh ?
A lot of these low rates reviews seem to have a problem with the rape case in this film. Not the story (if it's belivable), not the acting nor the cinematography, but with one simple thing that this movie is saying.
Rape issue is more symbolic than straight forward, seeing how the rape scene is actually played as a silent film-in-film. The woman in silent-film is in state of sleep, when her little lover enters her and stays there forever. Alicia is in coma (deep sleep) when her lover enters her and stays there "forever" (manifested in pregnancy and the child).
There is nothing heroic nor romantic about Benigno, but it's lonelyness, sadness and misplaced love, or feeling of love that comes from him. He's misguided by his own obsession that is disguiesed as love. He commits the hideous crime (which to him is an act of love) and is punished for it by....oh guess what...death. There is no rape glorification there, good people (by the way, anyone noticed comments on rapes within church ?).
Alicia's awakening is not some excellent side-effect of a rape, but its symbolic to the fact that those unlucky victims of rape can have somewhat normal life even after such terrible thing. It may not be easy, and they'll have to go through it step by step (just like Alicia starts practicing for dancing), but it's doable, if very hard.
Other than that, Lydia's character is great, and bullfighting scenes are breathtaking, such contrasts against each other: gracefull woman against bloody, wounded, 500kg bull. Too bad she was in for so short time.
Also dancing scenes are amazing too, cinematography is wonderfull, it's trully beautiful movie, do watch it if you have chance. (I just wanted to discuss the rape issue anyway).
40 Another brilliantly twisted love story from Almod—var
Pedro Almod—var presents another brilliantly twisted love story in TALK TO HER (Hable con ella), one that I can't stop thinking about. Javier C‡mara as Benigno, a coma hospice nurse, was the standout performance for me. Beningo is both masculine and feminine, man and child, gentle and aggressive, caring and obsessive. At first glance, he appears to be grounded in the harsh realities of working in a coma clinic, but soon we see that he living in a fantasy world in which his comatose patient, Alicia, will marry him. He lovingly cares for her: cutting her hair, manicuring her nails, massaging her lifeless limbs and taking her out onto the terrace to sunbathe. He constantly speaks to Alicia, describing movies and dance performances, asking her opinion on furnishings for the love nest he's creating for them out of his late mother's apartment. Norman Bates through the lens of Almod—var.

Rosario Flores cuts quite a figure in the role of Lydia, a bullfighter. She is a rangy figure, all huge features on a long, slim face and ropy body. She looks quite out of place when she wears 'traditional' women's clothing and jewelry with her hair down, but is striking in the elaborate traditional dress of the toreador. When she appears in the ring she is quite ugly (by conventional definition) but you can't take your eyes off her. Like Beningo (and all the other characters ultimately) she is an intriguing combination of male and female, power and submission, modern and traditional.

There is not a wasted shot in this film. Almod—var's eye is utterly precise, as he weaves this wild and unlikely story in which the characters' world progressively grows smaller, as their lives draw together and begin to overlap.

Although ultimately I might like ALL ABOUT MY MOTHER more, I could hardly deny the power of this film.


41 Almodovar 's Masterpiece
Firstly I have to admit that I was not an Aldomovar fan, and although All About My Mother was the one I enjoyed the most, I did find his other output, especially his earlier films an 'acquired taste'.
So I did think twice before renting Talk To Her,recommended highly by a couple of friends for some time, but finally I thought winning the award for best foreign language film at the Oscars can not be accidental.
And true to the hype,(for a change!!)since nine out of ten of the films that have been hyped turned out to be disappointing to say the least, Talk to Her was a beautiful film, full of heart and life, tragic and sad yet far from depressing..a very important distinction.
Friendships, obsession, lost loves, and deaths are all themes interwoven cleverly by Almodovar.
I will not go on about the story of the film itself, since it has been well reviewed by many, but I have few observations to make,
The genuis of Almodovar is not only he is the best Spanish director today, and like Tornatore in Italy, soley responsible for reviving the Spanish Cinema industry, but he is an excellent writer as well. It is always more interesting for the director to be the writer too,as it gives the film a personal and much more artistic dimension.
An example of this great writing is obvious in Talk To Her, as I felt sympathy for Benigno,instead of the revulsion that the act that sends him to jail later will undoubtedly and normally induce.
Although I am generally against bull fighting, I too found myself sympathizing with Lydia, the female matador (beautifully played by Rosario Flores), and this is all the result of powerful writing!
The soundtrack was beautiful,tragic and melancholic but somehow subdued and never overbearing..just gently complementing the scenes.
For me personally, this is Almodovar's best film to date, one that will surprise you, will captivate you from the first minute to the last, a film that reminded me why I love cinema so much.
42 On My All-time Top Ten!
I've watched this film, probably 6 or 7 times, and each time, I've walked away with something new.

Almod—var has brilliantly weaved together this new masterpiece by incorporating silent film, music, ballet, flashbacks, and scenes shot out of sequence to come up with a seemingly simple film which will surly stick with you for a long time.

Telling you the plot would be pointless, this is, in my opinion, one of those that you just have to watch, having no idea what's going to happen.

The acting is exceptional, the character's are unforgettable, the script is perfect, the pace is such, so as to keep you guessing, but still allows time for all the subtle elements which makes this such a rich cinematic experience.

Don't hesitate with this one!


43 Probably the best movie of 2001
Simply wonderful. Don't let the fact that the plot is about two women, each in a coma, and the men who love them, put you off. This is a beautiful, funny, sad, romantic and, yes, sometimes a bit distrubing movie.
44 Almodovar---always interesting!
I recently watched "All About My Mother" and was so impressed with Spanish director, Pedro Almodovar, that I had to see his next film "Talk to Her". I've always been a fan of his work but "All About My Mother" was his last film that really made me to go out and buy the dvd. "Talk to Her" is an interesting film but I didn't enjoy it as much as "All About My Mother". The story involves two men, who almost meet at a dance recital and then become friends as the two women they are in love with lay in comas at the same facility. It was hard to feel sympathy for Benigno ( a male nurse who sees to it that he is caring for the woman he is obssessed with) after a certain point in the movie, which I won't reveal, but it was interesting to see the friendship develop between him and Marco, who's bullfighting girlfriend, lies in a coma as well. Almodovar provides interesting and diffrent situations in his movies that you don't see in the typical Hollywood fare. If you are a fan of Pedro Almodovar, you'll want to catch this film. Otherwise, I say buy or rent it with caution. My personal favorites are "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown" and "All About My Mother"---you can't go wrong with either of these two films.
45 Daring and creative
"Talk To Her" is one of the best foreign movies released in 2002. The storyline has many creative and daring scenes, giving it that unique dramatic climax. Every scene continues to grow in interest, forcing the audience to never blink. The emotional acting is great. The longing feelings are expressed the best. The production and the directing is also magnificant. The Oscar win for Best Original Screenplay and the additional nomination for Best Director were well-deserved. However, the voting academy wrongfully dissed "Talk To Her" for Best Foreign Film.

A man's wife lays in a coma after a bullfighting accident. At the hospital, he meets a man whose "love of his life" also lays comatosed. The two become fast friends. Many dramatic turns occur amongst the four. Suddenly, a shocking event occurs, which changes everyone's lives, awake or unconscious.

"Talk To Her" is recommended to those looking for heavy drama. This will give them an experience to never be forgotten. Don't rent the english version. As all other foreign films, they change the script, therefore, demolishing every characters' emotions. The spanish version expresses everything that the producers intended.


46 THE BEST OF ALMODOVAR!
This is a MUST SEE........excelent music, actors and screenplay.
47 Pedro!!!!!!
Hola a todos! Esta vez no os escribire en ingles ya que todavia no lo domino mucho :-P. Sinceramente, la pelicula fue una obra maestra! Lo que es realmente increible es como Pedro Almodovar transmite el amor de una forma inocente pero eso si, esa inocencia no es nada mas que la mascara de la verdadera cara de la lujuria.

Dicen que es un poco sadica, si es sadica o no, eso realmente para mi no me importa, yo soy un cinefilo convencido y veo lo que sea tanto si me guste como si no.

Las intervenciones de los invitados como Paz Vega, Elena Anaya etc... fueron claves, a parte que la escena de Paz Vega en el corto en blanco y negro fue sublime, bastante salada ;-)

El guion fue perfecto, todo muy bien trabajado a fondo, y yo desde aqui Pedro - tanto si lo lees como no - te felicito por el oscar (a pesar de que te felicite un poco tarde jajajaja) Pues eso! Sigue haciendo peliculas!


48 Moving and Beautiful
Almodovar truly succeeds at expressing raw emotion throughout this beautiful film of love and loss. Just as in "All About My Mother," his characters allow the viewer to see aspects of humanity that may be categorized as deviant or unconventional yet we inevitably empathize with their desire and pain. In addition to an original and absorbing story, the wonderful acting, stunning cinematography, and highly emotional soundtrack are not to be missed. Without doubt one of the best films of 2002.
49 Boring?
Acting was fine, even notable. However the story, though
not quite total drivel, just seemed to me to be not worth telling. The film was nice as a vehicle for the actors. There was also good camera work. I assume everyone got paid, so good for all. For us though, there are finer stories out there; plausible ones, indeed interesting ones. This story would not be one of those.
50 A very good film
It's not everyday that I get into foreign films but "Talk To Her" is a film that was interesting from the beginning. It's sorta weird, a picture within a picture it seems. The two stories of the two very different women in coma's sounded like a boring premise for a movie, but the movie was just the opposite, both of the women had very lively stories that lead up to them ending up in a coma, and the men that cared for them cared deeply. This film kept me on the edge of my seat and the shocking twists in the movie are mad crazy. A definite winner.
51 FAITH, LOVE & DEVOTION
In simple terms TALK TO HER involves two men who are in love with two different women who are in a coma at the same rehabilitation center. Although at first glance these two tales appear to be unrelated, towards the end both intertwine as friendships are made and new love blossoms. But anyone who has watched it knows that there are a multitude of themes and issues running throughout this film. I won't necessarily go into what I interpret the themes to be because other reviewers have done a good job of exploring them. I simply adored TALK TO HER. I believe it is the best foreign film of 2002. The cinematography of the arid Spanish countryside is gorgeous and brings back happy memories of my trip to Spain many years ago. The characters are convincing and three-dimensional and the emotions displayed between them are realistic. It is amazing how well controversial subjects are treated with grace and skill without offending the audience or letting those scenes overpower the rest of the film. TALK TO HER is a pure delight. It only makes me wonder why I waited so long to see it in the first place.
52 a very good movie, sometimes pretty funny
there is a scene in the movie that is so funny but quite unspeakable or writeable here. this is a beautifully produced spanish film. by viewing this film, you can also realize that spain now is in a pretty good shaped economy, no wonder so many our dringos moved over there to enjoy a higher quality living standard.
53 Thinking about Talk To Her
It's unlikely that you'll ever see a more expertly assembled film than TTH. The acting is top-notch, the cinematography is memorably beautiful, the script is economical without being dry, and the pacing of the music and the silences is peerless.

Despite the spectacular wrapping, however, with TTH, there's just no getting around the plot.

There's only two ways to go here. Either

1) Talk To Her succeeds in showing that poetic, empathetic, and deeply human qualities can be found even within the morally repugnant, and merits comparison with a number of very good films featuring lush treatment of lurid subjects, including Kieslowski's White and Red, Tom Tykwer's Heaven, The English Patient, and even Seven.

or

2)Talk To Her IS morally repugnant, an unfortunate result of a director who had no one by his side with the guts to point out the self-absorbtion and gratuitous fantasy of the premise. Kind of like the ridiculous Eyes Wide Shut, or all of Woody Allen's "romantic comedies," now that we know just how creepy Woody Allen is.

Sorry, but I pick 2 on this one.

For a better film, see Y Tu Mama Tambien--that film finds real compassion within base desire, and it wipes the floor with this beautiful mess from Almodovar.


54 Is All Fair In Love?
Post perusal of the aforementioned reviews, one is inclined to interpret "Talk to Her" quite superficially. However, critical attention to the film's musical themes elicits deeper, more profound interpretations that urge viewers to question whether this film is as innocent as it seems.

Benigno is a victim of plutonic love. After developing an obsession for Alicia, a ballerina who delves into a coma for years, he not only nurses her as an intimate friend, he eventually martyrs himself for her as well.

If one pays attention to the subtlest details within the film, he or she will see there is limited, circumstantial evidence that deems Benigno guilty of the "crime" against Alicia. There is just as much evidence to deem another guilty.

The director masterfully punctuates the movie with a retro "talkie" that implies a warped phenomenon in Benigno. However, poetic intuition reveals an ulterior motive in another seemingly innocuous character.

Marco, a man who befriends Benigno, while caring for his comatose lover, Lydia, becomes Benigno's nemesis in pursuit of the same woman. Critical viewers will notice how each relationship overlaps like themes and motifs in a musical composition. This is relevant to understanding Marco's betrayal of Benigno. For instance, after caring for his own comatose lover for months, Marco discovers that his lover, Lydia, had repaired her relationship with her ex-lover before she had her debilitating accident. Distraught and alone, Marco wanders into an affinity for Alicia still in an unconscious state. It may not seem likely that Marco is capable of perpetrating the "crime" unto Alicia, but there is a few key lines in the film that allude to this strong possibility.

At one point, Benigno and Marco discuss Benigno's feelings about Alicia. He confesses in public he's in love with her and would like to marry her, despite her comatose state. Marco chides Benigno for confessing such "nonsense." Moreover, Marco tells Benigno that he won't be around to help him if "it" ever comes to light. What exactly is Marco alluding to? It seems Marco possesses some hidden knowledge of something, (perhaps the crime against Alicia), which Benigno knows nothing about.

The director deliberately leaves controversial angles of the film ambiguous in order to challenge viewers. No great work of art is simple. Any great work of literature, film or music is deliberately left ambiguous in order to provide multiple interpretations.

The director of "Talk to Her" doesn't want viewers to take any detail in the four relationships for granted. Unfortunately, though, most viewers are not as critical as the director would like, and only see the surface of any complex relationship. Yet, not everything in this world is as rosy as a harlequin romance. There are dark, hidden forces in the human psyche that manifest themselves in every human relationship--especailly when that relationship involves competition for a desired object.

In my humble opinion, Marco radically usurps the love of Alicia from Benigno's loving, caring, nurturing, and most importantly platonic hands. But, like a saint who dies for the sins of his loved ones, Benigno unconsciously takes the fall for Marco--a man who makes a choice to sacrifice the love of a friend for the love of a woman in a most complicated way.

This is why the film earned an Oscar. If the film were as cut and dry as other reviewers would have you believe, surely that award would not have been granted.


55 Classic
Almovodar does it again! I don't have a single negative thing to say about this movie.
56 Ballerina & Male Nurse, Female Matador & Writer & Silence
Another in a long line of outstanding Almodovar movies this flick does not dissapoint fans of his outlandish look at life. There are plenty of plot analysis reviews, controversy and interpretations so look around for the "right" one. What would a Almodovar movie be without ruffling a few feathers? The essence of the movie involves the lives of four people, two couples in love(one in a bizarre one way romance) where there are two women who end up in comas. It is a well done movie. There is a movie within a movie that is excellent, done in black and white in old silent movie style. The set designs in the black and while silent are magnificent and reveal a tragic love story where the "little man" (he takes a potion) makes the ultimate sacrifice to prove his love. This sequence is in itself worth viewing the movie. Besides the cinema itself the added features to the DVD are super. I thoroughly enjoyed Pedro Almodovar and Geraldine Chaplin as they discussed the whole movie as it plays without dialogue, explaining details and revealing unnoticed situations that may have been missed by just watching the movie. Their excitement over the results of their labor are infectous. Whatever you do watch the directors commentary version AFTER you have viewed it once. The performance by Caetano Veloso is outstanding as he sings an incredible version of "CuCu RuCu Cu Paloma " and is so good you'll be tempted to buy the soundtrack. Almodovar admits in the discussion of the film that he is not the same director from the 80's or 90's so if you are expecting the old Almodovar he has moved on. He has evolved and matured but continues to push peoples buttons in even more provocative ways. So is the movie funny like some of the older movies? Yes and no, there are moments where the ridiculous though somber scenes hit on both sides of the pendulum. The acting by the cast is very, very good, especially Beningo the male nurse who is a sordid character. His transformation from being an effeminate male nurse to a "tougher" type in prison is a thing of beauty; it is like two different people. You will ultimately be the judge of this movie but if you like Almodovar more than likely you will enjoy this movie where everything comes together for your viewing pleasure.
57 Ever too late ?
Yes, a good film. Most reviewers miss the cutting cynicism. [Cynicism that suggest tragedy for us all, sorrow. But, don't.] For example : You had better turn up the microphone and even if you do, people don't hear what you have to say, they only want to comment on the fact that you said "inmate" instead of "intern". Or : Even if you have something vital to say, your lawyer will make you tell nothing; if you're doing a ballet, like Geraldine Chaplin's character: it had better be about destruction and war and ghouls. People end up like the endless patterns of plants in the movie's background scenery. To wit : this is echoed by the appearance of the xerox'ed pairs of vegematic dancers at the film's end. We don't talk to one another -- we are "talking to plants", there is a lawyer or a psychiatrist or a glass shield between us. Dancing is not being a dancer--it is just more leg stretches. The truth of love cannot be spoken person to person. We could follow one another around with a microphone pressed to one another's lips, but all that is emitted is a gutteral sigh, like in the finale. Still, this movie shows us that it needn't be like that.

And, the main character survives amidst comatose humanity because he is true to his emotions, not fully willing to "sell out" and become a real life zombie. In the end, we are forced into shedding a tear -- perhaps a hopeful gift from this talented filmmaker.

I don't have a lot of DVD's but I have "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown" -- don't let this title fool you into a negative reaction. This is meant to signal humor much like in "I Love Lucy", where often the comedy stems from Lucille Ball's being on the edge of nervous hysteria. A wonderfully funny movie.

As for "Talk To Her" thanks, Almodovar for a last chance before total anaesthesia -- hopefully we will come out with it before the next one kicks.


58 Almodovar evokes the eloquence of silence.
Almodovar's most recent masterpiece is as beautifully written as it is thought provoking. This subtly wrought and and deeply symbolic film is, of course, best appreciated in its original language, and for anyone who purchases the DVD, I would suggest brushing up on your Spanish and turning off the subtitles. But the good news for those of us who don't speak the language is that, among the messages of this work is a statement of the profound communication that can be acheived in silence. Absolutely a must-see!!
59 AlmodovÌÁr raises his own bar for originality, best of 2002!
Those familiar with AlmodovÌÁr's work know that his characters are always colorful, diverse, his films being anything but boring and conventional. Perhaps this was the most obvious choice for most original screenplay at this years Academy Awards...

First, I must comment on some of the other reviewer's statements that AlmodovÌÁr condones the violent act in the film, and I must say I couldn't disagree more. He is simply the storyteller of this lonely tale, not the advocate. Furthermore, in listening to his commentary, (which proved to be as fascinating as the film itself) he explains the motivations behind the characters (unlike most other mainstream films, where the protagonist is either evil or good with no grey area) this gives the characters more depth and realism.

That being said, 'Talk To Her' plays like a symphony of poetry, colors and even passionate music, that evoke complex emotions within us. AlmodovÌÁr has a unique style, he is a true master of his characters, they are what drive his pictures. It is the story of four people that are mirror images of one another and yet so different at the same time. The twisting plot developments that will leave you speechless and at the edge of your couch. I know I was mesmerized from beginning to end.

A film with many themes, the main one being solitude and loneliness. Yes, it has elements of tragedy, but also encompasses humour, wit and thoughtfulness. The short silent film fantasy in which a little man attempts to please a woman with what can only be described as total and complete commitment, both amusing and heartbreaking. It is also a pivotal change in the film's direction. If you are a fan of AlmodovÌÁr, then you have no doubt seen this already, but if you've never seen his work before, I recommend trying this one first (most recent of the 17 films he has directed). It is a true work of art.


60 keeps you thinking...
I have seen All About my Mother and Talk to Her. Both films are unique and interesting in their own ways. Almodovar tries to convey universal themes by adding outrageous characters, spins and situations to his films.

Although I have not completely figured out the film, it is one that is filled with meaning and real-life struggles.

Some themes it evokes include male-female dependency.
It is interesting to see that Lidia, a woman is a matadora, she kills and has a more stereotypically masculine job. While her "lover" is masculine and not effeminate like Benigno. Benigno's woman is the one that lives, she is the creator of art of meaning, she is a dancer.

There are many themes and ideas in this film about male dependency on women and vice versa.

In my opinion the character of Benigno should not be extoled for his actions with Alicia, but he does it out of mental sickness. From the beginning Alicia is glorified as the girl that has a father that is a doctor. The audience does nto develop a relationship with Alicia, because she is very wealthy and above the other characters in class.

The film makes you think and is definentely worth buying!


61 Beautiful, Thought Provoking
I recently rented "Talk to Her" this past June after previously having seen it in the theater. [What follows includes a plot summary]. It was easy to enjoy Almodovar's "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown" and "All About My Mother," but "Talk to Her" was for me troubling, even if remarkable.

On the one hand it is the beautiful result of thoughtful, careful filmmaking. The mundane details of Almodovar's scenes are often raised to the level of art not by heavy stylization but by showing us the artfulness and colorfulness of mundane life. One example occurs in the scene where Benigno tells Marco about the time he saw him crying during the earlier theater performance scene; what is beautiful is that Marco naturally, unnoticeably is putting eye drops into Alicia's eyes at the same time. This detail could be interpreted in many different ways: perhaps it shows that Marco is a sensitive, emotionally whole person; Benigno, by literally putting tears into Alicia's eyes, is foreshadowed to cause pain. This detail also points to the artful narrative structure: it may seem obvious, but the mirroring that takes place throughout ought to serve as a starting point for analyzing where this mirroring begins and ends, how it is distorted, and how it functions to illuminate each subject. Some examples of this are: Marco/Benigno, Lydia/Alicia, Marco-Lydia/Benigno-Alicia, and each detail that falls within the realm of each of these subjects.

The troubling thing about "Talk to Her" is how the rape of Alicia by Benigno essentially brings Alicia to life and out of her coma. This should trouble us and we should spend some time thinking about what it means. But, first, we should admit that this movie is not "about women." The two main female characters are comatose and are taken care of by two men; the movie would appear to be "about" these two men. Second, I find that "Talk to Her", "All About My Mother", and "Women on the Verge..." are three films that "talk" to each other. Recognizing this, we see that "Talk to Her" has men replacing women as the caregivers and protectors that they are in the other two films. It would be silly to assert based solely on "Talk to Her" that Almodovar somehow misogynistically believes that men are the caretakers of women and that this relationship is never reversed. In fact, in seeing this, we should see that the movie does not seek to make such narrow, sweeping generalizations about men or women or even rape.

So does the rape by a seemingly loving but clearly pathological man deserve to be excused because it draws a woman out of a coma? I do not think that the film asks the viewer to excuse Benigno's act. His action is nowhere glorified in the film. If we feel sorry for his plight (his imprisonment and suicide), it is because Benigno (benign) is so pathetic and psychologically unbalanced and ill suited to life. We cannot say he is a martyr since he dies by his own hand. The acts of foreshadowing of the rape suggest tragedy and not heroism. Evidence of Benigno's creepiness also shows that the film realizes he is not normal. We should also remember that this is fiction and that the rape is operating symbolically and not literally (i.e., not in our real world).

What I struggle with most about the rape is the masking of the actual rape with a lighthearted silent film. Does this sanitize the rape of its ugliness? I don't know. There could be numerous interpretations of the silent film and its placement. I have not resolved this issue for myself, but I think it's something to dwell on. What I am consoled by is this: one theme of the film seems to be that life can rise out of death and ugliness. This does not deny the depravity of the rape nor is it a prescription for those in comas. The ugliness of Benigno's rape and the subsequent miscarriage of the fetus, despite themselves, somehow are causes of Alicia's regaining consciousness. This isn't pretty and we don't want to see it, but sometimes that just how things in life come to pass; it is a mystery of life. I recommend "Talk to Her" because it is beautiful filmmaking, and though it is perhaps troubling at times, it is not malicious; it is merely thought provoking.


62 a surprising movie
Winner of the Academy Award for Best Original Screenplay

When I read that a foreign film won a screenplay Oscar, I knew that I had to see the movie. I'm not sure if that has happened in the history of the Academy Awards. I had also heard positive reviews, but I did not have any sort of expectations going into this movie. I have a difficult time comparing the screenplay to an English language film, but this was a very good movie.

The movie opens in a theater where there is a dance performance going on. Two men are sitting next to each other, but they do not know each other. One of them is deeply touched and the other notices this and remembers it. The performance is over and they go back to their lives. Benigno is a male nurse who has one patient, Alicia. Alicia is in a coma. Benigno shows incredible care and tenderness for Alicia and early on we get the image that he is a fantastic nurse and that she is well served. Marco, the other man at the theater, meets a female bullfighter, Lydia, and they begin a relationship. When she is gored one day and ends up in a coma, Marco meets Benigno. They begin an odd friendship and Benigno helps Marco learn how to better care for Lydia.

It is at this point where we begin to see a different side of the characters. Benigno is revealed to a bit more obsessed with his patient than one would deem healthy. It is clear that he believes himself in love with Alicia. Marco's love for Lydia is being tested by the coma as well as by his memories of their time together. As the movie progresses we see more and more of the backstory that got the characters to where they are at the start of the movie. This changes our understanding of Marco and especially Benigno and it changes how we perceive their relations to each other.

By the end, Talk to Her went in some directions I did not expect with the characters. I was surprised by this movie, but it was a pleasant surprise. I liked Talk To Her. I can't speak to whether or not it deserved the Oscar that it won, or if it deserves a spot on a Top 10 list...but this is a good movie and if anyone has an interest in foreign movies, this is one to see (not necessarily the one to see, but it is one to see)


63 A Silver Lining in Life's Tragedies
Benigno (Javier Camara) is a male nurse obsessed with Alicia (Leonor Watling), a beautiful young dancer who has been in his care since an accident rendered her comatose. He talks to her as if she were conscious and handles her with the utmost care, attending to every detail of her needs to make sure she stays as beautiful as she was before her accident. Marco (Dario Grandinetti) is a journalist who is in love with Lydia (Rosario Flores), a female bullfighter who was recently jilted by her lover. When an injury leaves Lydia in a coma and near death, Marco meets Benigno. Benigno shows Marco how it is possible to care for someone who does not respond, and the two men, who seem to have little in common, develop a friendship based on their mutual grief. Benigno's odd and inappropriate attentions to Alicia eventually turn criminal. And we see how relationships form, are broken, and form again out of painful events in people's lives.

"Talk to Her" uses decidedly unconventional and roundabout means to describe how relationships form out of life's tragedies: Two women in comas and the men who care for them. This is a beautifully photographed movie, and director Pedro Almodovar has masterfully crafted the film in such a way as to keep our interest in characters and a story that actually do very little. "Talk to Her" has elicited some strong reactions from viewers who object to how Benigno's behavior towards Alicia is portrayed in the film. Some members of the audience are left with the impression that the film condones his treatment of Alicia. I don't think that it does. It simply does not directly comment on the issue. Almodovar allows the characters in the film to comment on Benigno's conduct, but refrains from doing so himself. "Talk to Her" asserts that hurtful events in life often serve as a catalyst for the formation and discontinuation of relationships. Benigno's eventual abuse of Alicia is one of those events. As for the character of Benigno, himself, Almodovar goes out of his way to include scenes which call into question Benigno's mental health, as well as scenes which draw attention to Benigno's homosexuality. "Talk to Her" is not a morality play, and it is even less a social diatribe. It is a thought-provoking film about relationships. If that sounds interesting to you, I highly recommend this film. Spanish with English subtitles.


64 Best Foriegn Film of the 2002
Talk to Her has a tone that Hollywood movies usually cannot reach. It reveals information slowly throughout and lets you develop your own thoughts about the characters. You spend a great deal of the beginning trying to figure out if the main character is Marco or Benigno and then you realize it's really one big story.

As is common in movies, you begin to sympathize with the characters, but here they do things to make you think twice about them, not unlike situations in real life where friends reveal their weaknesses.

Marco and Benigno really occupy different facets of the male psyche. Marco is outwardly masculine, but sensitive to the point of tears in the right situations. Benigno is sexually ambiguous and cold emotionally, so his actions later are a big surprise. So while the movie seems to be about the women in these men's lives, it gradually becomes about the friendship they develop between themselves.

The filmmaking is tremendous. The same idea could have been a tedious bore with the wrong director. I will certainly take this as a cue to see Pedro Almodovar's earlier films.


65 "Tell her everything."
The films of Spanish director Pedro Almodovar usually focus on women, but "Talk To Her" concerns the relationship between two very different men--Marco Zuluaga (Davio Grandinetti) and Benigno Martin (Javier Camara). Marco, a travel writer, who possesses a burning intensity, begins a tempestuous relationship with troubled female matador, Lydia Gonzalez (Rosario Flores) after she suffers a painful break-up with her long-time lover. Shy, vague Benigno longs and obsesses over dancer, Alicia (Leonor Watling), but years spent caring for his mother have left him socially unprepared to establish a normal relationship.

Coincidence is a phenomenon that occurs in most of Almodovar films--in "High Heels," for example, both mother and daughter marry the same man. Coincidence is the method by which Almodovar weaves his characters into his stories--they are in the same place at the same time, and so there is a story to be told. Of course, coincidence is just the term given to events that are connected by some unnameable undercurrent. But for want of a better word, it is a coincidence that both Lydia and Alicia end up in the same hospital--both young women are in comas. Benigno becomes Alicia's nurse, and he thrives at the job--taking additional shifts, exercising her body--but above all, he talks to her--endlessly. Alicia's devoted dance teacher, Katerina Bilova, played by Geraldine Chaplin also haunts Alicia's bedside. She holds entire (but one-sided) conversations with Alicia discussing dance, and Benigno even discusses films he's seen with Alicia.

Marco meets Benigno at the hospital and Marco is at once both fascinated and frustrated by Benigno's ability to nurse and care for the comatose Alicia. Marco is experiencing difficulty with Lydia's current state, and he is unable and incapable of taking Benigno's advice to talk to Lydia. Marco simply cannot communicate with Lydia, and he's rather impatient with the notion--although he's at a loss to explain why. Admiration for Benigno's apparent absorption and devotion leads to a deep bond between the two men.

Past Almodovar films have possessed a certain degree of dark humour. There is none to be found here, but the film--in spite of its subject matter--is not depressing either. Fans of "Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down" will remember one highly controversial scene that excited censors. A very similar scene is found in "Talk to Her," and it may be offensive to some viewers. "Talk to Her" is a rather odd film, and it certainly does not contain conventional morality, heroes, villains, or those who are punished for deeds viewed as evil. This is a story--that's all--no judgement strings attached, but it is simply beautiful. As always, Almodovar carries an optimistic message of acceptance of those who perhaps do not quite fall within the definitions of good or bad behaviour. Almodovar is one of my very favourite directors, and "Talk To Her" is yet another Almodovar masterpiece which will not disappoint Almodovar fans--displacedhuman.


66 Hug a Stalker, Won't You?
Talk to Her is the kind of film that breaks your heart as a viewer, and not in a good way. So much about it screams out for adoration - the gorgeous photography, the economy of dialogue, the small moments of humor. And yet, all of that is squandered in the final third of the movie, which tries (and fails) to romanticize the actions of a complete psychopath. The character in question is Benigno (Javier Camara, in an outstandingly creepy performance), a male nurse who, an hour into Talk to Her, commits a crime that can't possibly be justified. But director Pedro Almod—var stupidly insists on turning Benigno into a symbolic martyr of some kind, which has to be one of the most fatal flaws in movie history (and I saw Scooby Doo). The result of Almod—var's misguidance is bound to make most viewers, conservative or liberal, bitter and hostile toward Talk to Her.

Benigno's portrayal undermines nearly everything in the film. It makes his deep friendship with a journalist (Dario Grandinetti) seem implausible. And it causes Almod—var to abandon the character of Lydia (Rosario Flores), a female bullfighter who dominates the fascinating opening third of the movie. Once we learn a secret Lydia has been hiding, her character (admittedly comatose) vanishes, and she is sorely missed. We're then left with a sort of "love triangle" that rings false in almost every way.

The turning point that sends Talk to Her spinning downward is a short movie-within-the-movie that, at first, is a campy spin on old silent movies. But a few minutes in, it turns into one of those self-pretentiously disturbing scenes (think Prince Charles) that should have a warning sticker on it saying, "Director Going Overboard". You will squirm, and worse, for no real purpose. Almod—var has been hailed as great director and portrayer of women. But you'll be hard pressed to find the subsequent scenes woman-friendly. Talk to Her starts out a fascinating study of relationships, only to then wallow in the literal objectification of women. Here, women are a tool to help men find salvation. It's a stupid and arrogant idea, and it'll make Almod—var no new fans, no matter how clearly talented he may be.


67 A beautiful, yet very sad film
This past March, Talk To Her won Pedro Almodovar the Oscar for best original screenplay. This is not surprising, as Talk To Her is a brilliant, wondrous story. As I watched it, I couldn't help but invest completely in the characters. The character that I cared about most was Benigno, a young male nurse who is very much in love with Alicia, the comatose girl that he cares for. I was very much moved and saddened by Benigno's story. Although Benigno becomes less sympathetic as the story progresses, he remains the focal point of the story, in my opinion. It's very touching and sad to see his love/obsession for Alicia unfold.

The other major character is Marco, whose bullfighter girlfriend Lydia is gored by a bull and remains in a coma just like Alicia. Marco and Benigno soon strike up a friendship, taking solace in their ability to relate to one another. Soon, as Benigno's troubles grow, Marco becomes his only true friend.

It's a beautiful story that works on many levels. It's about relationships. The "relationships" between two men and the comatose women that they love, and the relationship between the two men themselves. Indeed it can be disturbing at times, particularly as it becomes clear that Beningo has some psychological problems to deal with. However, I found Talk To Her to be an incredibly moving and profound experience.

I have not seem many of Almodovar's films. I enjoyed his 1999 Academy Award-winning All About My Mother, but I found Talk To Her to be even beyond that fine film. Based on this one, I plan to delve deeper into the work of Pedro Almodovar who seems to be a genuinely imaginative, compelling and complex filmmaker.


68 Talk to her, listen to him
Pedro Almodovar's "Talk to Her," a first-class film that provided a pleasant surprise on Oscar night, comes to market with commentary from the "chatterbox" Spanish director and one of his actors, Geraldine Chaplin.

Almodovar, who won an Oscar for "Talk to Her's" screenplay, spends a lot of time describing the obvious, but the commentary does have its moments. The director ("Matador") returned to the bullfighting arena in this film, and displays a detailed knowledge of the blood sport's rituals. Actress Rosario Flores spent four months learning how to fight, Almodovar says, and actually received offers for representation as a matador.

Almodovar, suffering from a cold, does most of the talking, laughing at his own torrent of words and at one point promising Chaplin, "I'll be silent at any moment." His chipper chat is in contrast to the film's fairly somber tale of two women in comas. Veteran actress Chaplin is respectful of her director and overly reserved.

Images are a bit soft and tend to be flat in outdoor scenes and dark indoors. Colors are OK, but unusually reserved for the director's work. The Spanish-language film comes in adequate Dolby Digital 5.1. Engish subtitles are in bright yellow, clear and easy to follow. Almodovar and Chaplin's commentary is in Spanish, also with subtitles.


69 Talk to Her (Hable con Ella)
I really wanted to love this movie. The cinematography was beautiful and I tried hard to sympathize with the protagonists presented by Almodovar. But ultimately I found it impossible to identify with a rapist. This movie is yet another example of rape and other violence against women is normalized and eroticised in film. It's really very simple and the complex statement about how love crosses boundaries, is false. A man having sex with a woman who is not able to consent, because she is in a coma, is disgusting and makes me very angry.
70 Almodvar Matures
I am a big fan of Almodvar and all his movies. He is one of the very few directors in film history that creates movies that are hugely artistic and commercialy successful. He managed to create a style of his own, visually and conceptually. This movie is a lot different from all his earlier movies. You can recognize his camera style, the acting, the music, and the light comedy but you will not see the strong melodrama and the camp elemets. This movie is Almodvar mixed with a bit of Bergman. This is a start of a new phase in his directing career and I am looking forward to see what he is going to do next..
71 Another Treasure of a Film from a Contemporary Master
Some directors have infrequent moments of brilliance in an otherwise average output. Other directors approach the exceptional but just don't quite make it. Pedro Almadovar is a gifted artist who consistently creates works of art on film that are brave, bizarre, are about subjects that few others would venture, and his end product is not only a story well told but one told with an attention to every detail that makes movies magic. His sense of atmosphere, of color, of set decor, of flashbacks - stream of conscious writing just when the story seems oddly concrete - of choice of music - all are first rate. The black and white silent movie within a movie is at once hilarious and tender. Almadovar is a poet and he is graced by a company of actors who obviously treasure the experience of his creations. Muc has been said about the story line of this movie and another synopsis is simply redundant. Suffice it to say that here is a story about how we as individuals bond with others and the circumstances that can accompany that bonding, here, stretches the imagination in a wondrous way. ALL of the actors are excellent and wholly credible. The DVD is graced by a conversation between Almadovar and Geraldine Chaplin in one of the most sensitive interactions with creator and created that is on film. This is a lustrously beautiful, wise, gently comedic, and tragic tale. With all of the inherent gloom and doom in this story the viewer is left with a refreshingly life-affirming glow. This should be in every movie lover's collection.
72 Enigmatic characters, enigmatic desires
"Talk To Her"--the title holds more than a bit of irony for the women in this film are in comas. This is the most enigmatic of Almovodars films. And the male nurse Benigno is the most enigmatic character to appear in any of those films. Does Benigno like women? Yes apparently. Does Benigno like men? Yes apparently. Apparently, but nothing is certain about Benigno. Like many of Almovodars heros and heroines Benigno is obsessed by someone or perhaps two someones. We know he is obsessed with Alicia, a dancer, now in a coma, who he has been hired to care for. But also he is obsessed with the soft spoken travel journalist Marco. Marco's bullfighting girlfriend is also in a coma and so he visits her in the hospital where Benigno cares for Alicia. Marco catches Benignos eye and to lure Marco to him he positions Alicias nude comatose body in provacative postions and leaves her door ajar so a passing Marco will catch a glimpse of her and enter. So the two meet and a strange friendship materialises over a shared obsession over comatose Alicia. But neither of them can "talk to her". So they talk to each other. But as always in all obsessive love triangles someone ends up betraying someone. That proves true here as well but nothing else about this love triangle is usual.

The characters all remain enigmatic perhaps even to themselves but obsession proves to be the thing that gives life its meaning as is so often true in Almovodars films. To Almovodar women are mysterious and never moreso than when they are in a coma. By having the object of desire both vulnerable and close and yet so utterly remote at the same time Almovodar gives us his most mysterious meditation on the nature of love yet. The very funny fantasy scenario with shrinking man climbing into sleeping woman is perhaps the most absurd literalization of obsession ever filmed.


73 The emperor's new clothes
I am absolutely dumbfounded and amazed at the number of people who rhapsodize about this film, and can only conclude that its popularity is an example of "the emperor's new clothes" mentality... What I'd like to point out is that one of the main characters is a stalker and rapist who completely violates the woman with whom he is "in love." Apparently, viewers of this film who like it seem to think his actions are less repugnant because he is depicted as being "in love" and because his victim is in a coma! ... Well, I don't know how they define love, but stalking, violating, raping and impregnating a defenceless woman are hardly part of MY definition! To me there is nothing bittersweet about this story and I felt nothing but revulsion and anger towards this character and the movie as a whole. The director utterly manipulates the audience to feel sympathy for this idiot; it amazes me that most viewers seem oblivious to this. If a story about a lynching KKK member were just as beautifully,skillfully and cleverly filmed, acted and scored, would you not see beyond that to its repugnant core?!!! It's a horrible premise, sugar-coated to seem "poignant" and "deep" and "moving", but one which, in my opinion, anyone who is truly caring would NOT be able to get beyond. Besides all this, it's a pretentious, totally melodramatic movie with an utterly ridiculous, laughably overwrought ending. I can't believe anyone could find this movie moving. And what is all this ridiculous stuff about how Pedro Almodovar loves women, understands women, etc. I think this movie makes it pretty apparent he has no empathy whatsoever for women and in fact quite probably has a few problems with them! (Incidentally, 4 bulls were slaughtered for the purposes of making this film, leading Almodovar to be charged and fined. Nice guy. Caring, sensitive guy.)
74 odd form of redemption
Spanish with English subtitles. not a problem. dialog is easy to follow and don't miss the movie because you dislike subtitles.

Odd, but not bizzare, view of redemption via not-quite-mature love.
It's the story of a mama's boy, who falls in love with a ballerina next-door, but is too shy and selfconscious to woo her in a normal way. But his opportunity comes when she is put into a coma with a traffic accident. He becomes her primary caregiver. He talks to the comatose girl and does her hair, her fingers, massages and washes her daily. Falling in 'love' with an object of desire who never talks back, never interacts except in his head. He is smitten with a silent movie and rapes her one night. fired from the job, jailed, out of touch with the only thing that matters to him, he eventually commits suicide. While she, still comatose delivers a stillborn baby and awakens as a result.

There is much to think about in this gentle movie...Interaction with the woman, interaction with another story line about a comatose bullfighter and her boyfriend. But most of all the story about him. Never loved, yet tender, unable to express himself to a live conscious woman, he truely loves her as a person despite her inability to return his love at all. A surprising movie, worth the time to see.


75 Franco would be proud...
Talk to Her could have been a great film. Almadovar has obviously mastered the art of the narrative film. He has developed and matured tremendously as a writer since his early overly slapstick films. His visual abilities have progressed far beyond most of his peers.

So why did I make the statement that "Talk to Her could have been a great film"? Because there is a line that needs to be drawn as to what is acceptable in cinema. Western society has progressed beyond the point of rape being anything but bad. Sure every nation may punish rapists differently, but it is assumed that rape is a bad thing. In Talk to Her, a character rapes a comatose woman, and that woman is awoken, revived, saved when she gives birth (a direct result from the rape) to a stillborn child. In my opinion, this is sick and demented, to maintain that a female character can be saved by a rape? The rapist is ostracized from society (and more importantly the comatose woman that he "loves") and rightly punished (jailed), but this does not fix the problem I have, the woman was still "saved" by being raped. It could be argued that his "love" saved her, but that "love" was represented by non-consentual sex. Of course the rapist has an excuse, he's a social outcast, boardering on mental retardation. So, he didn't know better. He didn't know it was wrong. He was only living by his emotions, he wasn't thinking. Does this make it any better? I know this is Spain, a country deeply routed in Catholicism, but was abortion really not an option for a woman that is in a coma and becomes pregnant by rape. Think of the metaphors involved in a much more progressive scenario in which the hospital aborts the baby, and she wakes up. The abortion saves her life. Not the rape.

Without that minor (?) plot point, Talk to Her would rank up there with All About My Mother, as one of Almadovar's greatest films. Instead, Almadovar opened my eyes to his conservative, machismo attitude and closed my eyes to his talents as a filmmaker.

Of course, many Almadovar fans can look right past this. Many did not even notice, or said I was reading into the situation too much. So maybe its just me. Or maybe I now understand what many of my leftist, intellectual friends have told me from the beginning, Almadovar is clearly a product of Franco Spain. I can think of no greater insult.


76 An overrated and disappointing film by Almod—var
I think part of the critical honeymoon this film has enjoyed has to do with Almod—var's oeuvre, which has been consistently provocative, challenging, and interesting. He has made some very good films, such as the hilarious "Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown" and the intriguing "Law of Desire" (La Ley del deseo), and some very disappointing films, such as "Matador" and "Tie me up, Tie me Down." I would place this film in the middle of the spectrum, despite all the hype about it being Almod—var's most accessible film. My objections to the film are primarily artistic, but I happen to find it morally reprehensible as well. Had the story been done with greater depth and sensitivity, I would undoubtedly find little in the way of a "moral" objection. In fact, I find that the director "uses" the women in this film in the same way as the male characters use them, as vessels for their hopes, dreams, and desires, not as automomous individuals with their own hopes, dreams, and desires. I find that objectionable on many levels. Dario Grandinetti as Marco is effective, if somewhat one-note, and Javier Camara as the childlike Benigno is adequately convincing in a complex role. The female roles are lacking in the depth and richness with which Almod—var usually infuses his women, which is unfortunate given the title of the film. Caetano Veloso does a lovely version of "Cucurucucu Paloma," but the tenderness of his version of the standard is out of place, even wasted, in a film which often descends into tawdry melodrama and very pat characterizations. I know we'll see better work out of Pedro Almod—var, and I hope he doesn't believe all the publicity about this particular film (as Simone Signoret famously said: "My performance is finished, and publicity will not make it better").
77 Extracted from Stars
This movie is one of its kind. I have seen nothing like this. Pedro Almodovar blended comedy, romance, and drama like no one has ever done. Life has many colors, and this movie reminds us again. You won't regret watching it.
78 SO DIFFERENT
When I went to see this film I knew that many people in Europe like it already. It took almost all awards in Europe. I knew the director and some of the actors. I knew the exceptional work these people had done before but I did not really know what level of a film I would see now. It was different. It was different even from the early works of the same people. There was no moving picture in this film. This was a very well done play where the movie approach was used just to move people from one scene to another and from one area to another. The cinematography, as we know it, was not really applied or important. It is a great play which was put together by the great group of people. I enjoyed it very much.
79 For once, Almodovar misses--and he REALLY misses
I love lots of movies that other people hate. Cheesy action films and stuff like that. But every so often, I find myself disliking a movie everyone else says is brilliant. This is one of those times.

I love Almodovar, really I do. And I tried, oh how I tried to like this movie. It's visually stunning, after all, and wonderfully acted. And it is an atrocity.

Apparently most of my 40 fellow reviewers have no real problem with the fact that one of the male protagonists of this film, a man portrayed sympathetically as someone capable of great love and tenderness, nevertheless [attacks] the woman he "loves" while she is in a coma.

By itself, this wouldn't make a bad movie. What's bad is that Almodovar seems to REALLY WANT US TO BELIEVE that the [attack] is not an immoral act, that somehow the situation presented is beyond good and evil. Guess what? It's not.

The film's visual and narrative focus totally disempowers the female characters of the film--and not just because two of them are in comas. There's nothing TO the women in this movie. They're just objects, landscapes, tools, for men to use in order to find out just how sensitive they can be and how much love they can have. No thanks. Not interested.

I'm all for movies that force us into uncomfortable identifications with unusual protagonists, but there's a way to do this without making us complicit with the protagonist (Fight Club, for instance). Instead of offering some perspective, Talk to Her visually rapes a female character and then tries to convince us that something beautiful has happened.

What really disturbs me, though, is my fellow 40 reviewers. How exactly do the males among those reviewers look at women? And how do the women among those reviewers look at themselves?

Maybe this time I'm just wrong. But so far, no matter how hard I have tried, I have been unable to convince myself that anything beatiful happened in this movie. And the movie seems to think the opposite. And that, my friends, is very, very disturbing.


80 Extraordinary
Up `til now I've avoided Pedro Almodovar's movies because I thought his work was going to be bright, loud, and kitschy to the point of garishness. Now I don't know if that's a mistaken impression or not, but "Talk to Her,"is far from what I expected. I don't think I've had a more rewarding motion picture experience in some time. The only film that comes close is "Y Tu Mama Tambien," and "Talk to Her," is up a few steps from that wonderful movie. Two men, two women, two totally different relationships bound by equally tragic events, and resolved in ways sad, perverse, and beautiful. And don't forget - comic. The humor in this movie runs from humane to surreal, and for the most part is simply touching. One of the great "finds" of this movie was Caetano Veloso performing a gorgeous rendition of "Cucurrucucz Paloma," that brought tears to the eyes of one of the movie's characters, and to mine as well; and Mr. Almodovar had the wit to allow the song its course. Definitely worth the price of admission. "Talk to Me," is a splendid movie that should have you thinking and talking about it for days.
81 AS I LAY SLEEPING....
Pedro Almodovar, you either understand his films and like them or you shun his masterpieces like the plague. I'm of the former genre. I think he is brilliant. "All About My Mother," was in my opinion a masterpiece. Cutting thru the sexual taboo's as with a Rapier, leaving you with your mouth wide open, or walking up the aisle.

I was a little apprehensive about this new film,'Habla con ella,' but I shouldn't have worried as it was another triumph for the Director. Who else could direct a film about two comatose women and two oddball men who are in love with them, one being unnaturally fixated. The two men for the most part would not have even met had they not seen each other at the hospital, where Lydia (Rosorio Flores), and Alicia (Leonore Watting) have close rooms. Both women were dancers so-to-speak, Alicia was a classical ballet student and Lydia, danced with the Toro in the Arena of the noonday sun, the bull hooked Lydia and a car caught Alicia.

The men Benigno, (Javier Camara), a nurse, and the one who talks to Alicia as if she were alive, and Marco (Dario Grandinetti), who is in love with Lydia, who is on the rebound from another affair....

Both men do a great job and you can feel their angst, especially Benigno, as he is not in control of his feelings for Alicia.

There was one of the greatest renditions of 'CU, CU ,RU, CU, CU, PALOMA, that I have ever heard, very sexy and moving.

Also, Almodovar brings in his stars from other pictures. At the nightclub you will see a few actors from All About My Mother. Marisa Paredes, (Huma Rojo) and Cicilia Roth (Manuela) By far Rosorio Flores eats up the camera, especially in her bullring outfit, her face and litheness gives her a wonderfully tormented and tragic look. She is an Almodovar actor.

ciao yaaah69 I give this flick 41/2 out of 5


82 Talk to Almod—var
While I believe this to be a really good film, I can't label it as great. I don't even think this is Pedro's best work (to me it's either All about my mother or Women on the verge of a nervous breakdown). This is not to say it doesn't deserve all the praise it's gotten.

As in most Almod—var films, this one tells of strange relationships and deep feelings. All the characters are well developed, and the intertwining of the stories is flawless.

Highlights of the film: Caetano Veloso singing "Cucurrucucu paloma" (don't miss Cecilia Roth's and Marisol Paredes' cameos in this scene), the bullfighting scenes, and the silent b&w movie scene.

Kudos to Pedro for another great piece, and for winning the Oscar for Best Original Screenplay -- and shame for the Spanish Cinema people who decided no to postulate this film as their entry in the 2002 Oscars...


83 very disturbing message
it's a disgustingly manipulative movie designed to apologize for rapists and convince people that rape is good for women. how convenient for the male writer/director that he writes a story about a woman being raped in a coma and it turns out good for her. hey, it saves her from the coma! how convenient! that people can be manipulated so easily to see this as a "love story" is the most horrific aspect of all of it. just add pretty visuals, get a good cinematographer, write the story with painfully crafted manipulation and all of a sudden everyone is rooting for a rapist. the reality of rape is that victims suffer massive trauma (and this includes when they can remember the event or not, if it's in the case of being drugged or assaulted while unconscious, "body memories" surface later and the psyche still stores the assault and the trauma is still endured). i hope everyone who has praised this movie thinks about how much they are backstabbing every victim of rape, victims who suffer short term or often lifelong post traumatic stress and destruction of their lives from this crime. rape victims are up to 14 times as likely to attempt suicide as non-victims. (all you fans of this film think about *that* for a while.) none of that is revealed in this film, instead the gutless idea that rape could have a positive effect on a victim is presented instead. hello! this director is sick! it's unbelievably gutless to promote this film. and what other sick messages could be hyped
in films just by the manipulation of good film work? what's
next, the remake of "birth of a nation"? (the 1915 film blamed
for causing surges in, and apologizing for racial violence and slavery - even going so far as to make it seem like slaves were
happy in their lot in life. kind of like almodovar selling the idea that rape victims are ok with violence against their consent.) wake up people!
84 Exceptional!
I haven't loved previous Almodovar films; some I've liked and some I've found irritating. But Talk To Her has so much going for it that it's rewarding on any number of levels. The subject is love and it is handled with great humor, with an underlayer of scorching grief. Right and wrong is all in the perceiving. There is obsessive love and guilty love as well as fraternal affection and parental/surrogate love.

The cinematography is no less than exquisite, as is the use of color. The film is touching and unpredictable; the performances are wonderful across the board, including a supporting role splendidly handled by Geraldine Chaplin. What is striking is Almodovar's affection for the characters, despite their flaws and weaknesses. The humor is never at anyone's expense, never cruel. The pain evidenced by the characters is almost matter-of-fact in its presentation--randomly terrible things happen and somehow the survivors must go on.

There are some extraordinary moments, one of the most notable being a remarkable affecting performance of "Cucurrucucu Paloma" by Brazilian actor, singer, director Caetan Veloso. The soundtrack ranks as a cast member, so vital is it to the integrity of the film.

Finally, satisfyingly, the film ends on an optimistic note with more underlayers--of sadness, loss and hope. Intelligent and thoughtful, Talk To Her is a singular accomplishment.
My highest recommendation.


85 she'll listen...
according to director pedro almodovar, the film talk to her is all about communication and i have to agree with him. whether or not you agree with the film's subject matter nor like the outcome of the film, i tend to think you will find talk to her a solid story through and through. from the very opening of the film to the heartfelt ending, you will be enthralled as you laugh and cry with our lead characters as their fate unfolds before our very eyes. it is almost impossible to fathom just how much talk to her will touch you or provoke you until you left the theatre and begin your journey elsewhere. while watching almodovar's latest masterpiece, i couldn't but smile when i thought how much he has evolved in his style over the years. from the comical, madcap or simply outarageous to the more melodramatic and sentimental dramas he has made recently such as all about my mother. beware, the madcap and the outrageous are still in almodovar's magical hands and probability suggests this will never change throughout the remainder of his career in filmmaking. there are so many aspects of this film which i would love to share with you but somehow i'm unable. you simply have to experience this film for yourself and i feel it's best if seen in the dark halls we still know as theatres if at all possible. i've been to see this film twice in the past two evenings and talk to her gets better with each and every viewing. i have already preordered my copy of talk to her and i cannot wait until it ships in may. in spain, almodovar is considered the GOD of spanish cinema and i don't dispute this statement.
86 What filmmaking is all about ...
What can I say, this movie is just perfect.
This movie has everything that mainstream US cinema lacks !!
It's an original, moving story, with a great cast (Dario Grandinetti is perfect) and an excellent soundtrack.
This movie shows the great talent that is Pedro Almodovar.
Without a doubt one of his best, if not his best movie ever.
It just got released in Europe on DVD and VHS to buy and I got it right away.
Very moving movie.

Talk To Her is a story about the friendship between two men, about loneliness and the long convalescence of the wounds provoked by passion. It is also a film about incommunication between couples, and about communication. About cinema as a subject of conversation. About how monologues before a silent person can be an effective form of dialogue. About silence as "eloquence of the body", about film as an ideal vehicle in relationships between people, about how a film told in words can bring time to a standstill and install itself in the lives of the person telling it and the person listening.
Talk To Her is a film about the joy of narration and about words as a weapon against solitude, disease, death and madness. It is also a film about madness, about a type of madness so close to tenderness and common sense that it does not diverge from normality.


87 AWESOME
i think that it is very important to go into this movie with an open mind. i think that it is important for everyone to watch his movies with an open mind. talk to her has a complete range of emotions that make the watcher really experience new emotions. this movie is all about love. all the actions in this movie are propelled by love. it is that simple. when you watch this movie do not judge everything based on surface value, it is very importnat that you look deeper for the meaning of the action. my point really refers to benigno. what he does is very inapprpriate, but you must take into consideration the reason he does it and the what the consequence of his action brings about. like i said it is so important to look deeper than the surface to truly understand the thought behind his actions. people should watch this movie because above all else it is entertaining, but it is also heartfelt and made with love. i love this movie and cannot wait to buy it on dvd!
88 Stupendous
I've seen several Pedro Almodovar films and been amazed by his amazing ability behind the camera and also the development of the stories around his characters. The greatest mark of a director, of good film is when people don't appear to be acting but instead as if the watcher feels like they're watching someones life unfold.

Lydia (Rosario Florees) a female bullfighter, gets mauled and this leaves her in a coma. Her new boyfriend Mauricio losyti n what to do, stays with her though he knows her situation may be terminal. Then he accidentally spots a nurse, Benigno, taking care of Alicia, in a coma as well. There's a game of attarction between the four lead people in this film because Mauricio and Benigno are so genuinely in love with the women and eventually they literally fall in love with the other's capacity to love. When confronted about his sexuality, Benigno opts to be homosexual so that Alicia's father, a psychiatrist he saw once while secretly stalking Alicia, won't suspect him as the obsessive he so obviously is.

THe movie, set up literally in neurosis and to some degree psychosis, lensed through love goes even further as Alicia, literally pops up, pregnant. And Benigno's loving devotion starts looking a little too devoted. Eventually mauricio discovers that Lydia is "cheating" on him. She reunited with a lover the day of her mauling who now sits by her side, so he's been replaced. The funniest, most warped scenes are when Lydia and Alicia are propped up in chairs next to each other for visits and sunbathing and Mauricio and Benigno talk both over them and to them. Benigno has perfected the art of
"hearing" Alicia and tries to train Mauricio until scandal erupts with the pregnancy.
Mauricio's devotion to Benigno is touching and even Benigno explains that in order to be visited in prison he had to tell the officials that Mauricio is his lover. Their sympathy deepens into both understanding and friendship in a way that we see Benigno's sexuality has just never been explored by a living person and Mauricio's capacity to love is greater than his masculine ego about his sexuality. To some degree there's this huge question of whether or not this whole mess has co me about to bring the two men together, one man who's always wanted to be devoted to someone living but has settled for his dying mother and then the comatose Alicia, people who can't reject him until he finds someone who loves him, whackiness and all.
I think there comes a point when we all love someone who we can love, regardless of gender, and the body no longer matters. There's a high degree of spirtuality at play in this movie, particularly about love and simply loving someone, being availible to loving someone. There's a couple of twists in the last third of the movie that veer sharply from where this seems like it may go and begins a whole new chapter, a new story between Mauricio and Alicia, which is startling and at the same time suggests that everything before was an attempt to get to that point.
A stupendous film because of a great story, as the best movies always are.


89 Pure Genius ...
Just like most (if not ALL) Pedro Almodovar's movies this AGAIN is a work of art. Beautifully shot with an excellent cast (Dario Grandinetti is BRILLIANT), original storytelling with a twist (the silent movie part is genius and very funny), extremely moving. Things that most US mainstream movies miss.

Talk To Her is a story about the friendship between two men, about loneliness and the long convalescence of the wounds provoked by passion. It is also a film about incommunication between couples, and about communication. About cinema as a subject of conversation. About how monologues before a silent person can be an effective form of dialogue. About silence as "eloquence of the body", about film as an ideal vehicle in relationships between people, about how a film told in words can bring time to a standstill and install itself in the lives of the person telling it and the person listening.
Talk To Her is a film about the joy of narration and about words as a weapon against solitude, disease, death and madness. It is also a film about madness, about a type of madness so close to tenderness and common sense that it does not diverge from normality.

By the way, over here (Europe) Mr. Almodovar is considered as a GOD.


90 Another Almodovar gem... with a Caetano Veloso cameo!
One of Spanish director Pedro Almodovar's most skillfully directed, richly textured films. He's still exploring uncomfortable, unconventional behavior, and taken on its surface level, the plot may creep a lot of people out, but you gotta admire the sheer filmmaking beauty of it all, and the classiness of a European perspective that includes dancer Pina Bausch alongside a moody female toreador.

For me, one of the most pleasant twists was Almodovar's inclusion of a healthy dose of the best music from Brazil, including a glorious live version of "Cucurrucucu Paloma" by Caetano Veloso... as charming and transcendent a performance as you could ever ask for. Okay, so now a bunch of people are wondering which Caetano albums to buy that sound similar in tone to that song. Off the top of my head, I'd recommend acoustically-oriented records such as 1975's "Coisa" and "Joia," and particularly the more recent European concert album, "Omaggio A Federico E Guilietta," which features Caetano playing with pretty much the same ensemble as seen in the film, and has the same subtle cultural spendor. It also features avant-pop cellist Jacques Morelenbaum, who has been Caetano's bandleader for the last decade or so. They're all favorites of mine, and hopefully of your's as well!


91 The art of Almodovar: extreeeemely adicting
You could spend hours on end talking about Almodovar's art, the result of a work that has evolved from some more-sexually loaded works back in the seventies and eighties to his more mature and hilarious works from the past decade. Starting with "La Flor de mi Secreto" in 1995, you start to see a trend in his work. With the help of some of today's greatest Spanish-speaking stars, such as Marisa Paredes, PenŽlope Cruz, Javier Bardem, Cecilia Roth and this time around, the brilliant Argentinian star from "El Lado Oscuro del Corazon" Dar’o Grandinetti, charming Leonor Watling, the sexy Spanish singer Rosario Flores and most-peculiar Javier C‡mara, Almodovar is on a trip to the unknown to tell the stories flowing from his heart, from his childhood, his forbidden places...

The plot was beautifully summed up by a reviewer on another site with these words: "Marco [Grandinetti] is Sancho to Benigno's [C‡mara's] Quixote, and as Benigno's hopes for his patient [he plays a male nurse] become fantasies, Marco tries to inject reality." As hipnotizing the movie can result there's more to it than a brilliant storyline: direction is impeccable (as usual with Almodovar), filled with details to embellish the story; the music is... well, what else can be said about Alberto Iglesias, Almodovar's long time scorer? This is his most brilliant accomplishment so far!

The best advise I can give you is, get up, grab your keys and shoot for a theater that is playing it: you will laugh, you will cry and you will come back home craving for more. Be in the look for his next work, "La Mala Educacion" where he brings along Gael Garc’a Bernal, the young star from "Amores Perros" and "Y Tu Mama Tambien". This is what happens with Almodovar: once you get started with his movies, you can't get enough of them. You need more!


92 A MASTERPIECE
By now - after reading the other reviews - you should know the plot and characters of TALK TO HER by heart. I won't bore you by repeating them here. See this film if you cherish screenplays, direction, ensemble acting, cinematography, editing, and music that are no less than brilliant. It is Almodovar's best. He has composed a masterpiece that immensely satisfies both one's left and right brains. My strongest recommendation is that TALK TO HER is, along with AFTER LIFE, one of my favorite films about life.
93 touching and unexpected
who whould have guessed that a director could have made a movie about two men falling in love with women in comas so interesting. this was an elegant play of tentions, emotion, and confusion. the script had the sumptous quality of a Delacroix painting and the irony of a Maria Callas Dance mix.
94 Makes you think
In "Talk to her" Benigno is the fatty, strange, effeminate nurse in charge of taking care of Alicia, who is in a coma for the last four years. Marco is the reporter who falls in love with Lidia, the "torera" who got struck by a bull and is also in a coma.

Benigno and Marco meet for the first time watching a play. Benigno notices how emotive Marco is, and comments the fact with a fellow nurse. Months later, they meet again in the hospital where Alicia and Lidia are interned, and start a friendship based on the fate of the two women.

Even if he's emotive, Marco can't understand why Beningno constantly talks to Alicia, even if she is not able to listen. Marco won't talk to Lidia, not even when Beningno says: "Talk to her. It will do you both good."

This is a good film, but, based on all the hype, and on what everybody else is saying about "Talk to her", I though it was going to be better. Almodovar once again concentrates the main theme of his movie on women, and they are the strongest part of the story, even being both in a coma. Everything revolves around them. "Talk to her" is a big drama, with some funny moments, but a big undisguised drama nonetheless. There are no revolutionary direction techniques, the acting is good, but plain, and the sound score is boring.

The best thing about "Hable con ella" is that you leave the movie in a "thinking mood". You keep thinking about what would you do if you were Benigno, or Marco; you keep wondering if what they have done is right, under the circumstances, or just plainly condemnable.

I thing Almodovar has made better films than this one, like "Carne tremula" (Live flesh) or "Ata-me" (Tie me up, tie me down).

Grade 8.5/10 (barely made 5 stars)


95 hable con ella
The plot of the new Pedro Almodovar film, "Talk to Her," sounds a lot like the setup for a really long, really bad joke.

It's about a male nurse, a writer, a ballerina and a bullfighter named Lydia, and the ballerina and the bullfighter are both in a coma during much of the movie.

But "Talk to Her," although it has an unusual premise and moments of great humor, is not a long, bad joke; it is, in fact, one of the most moving and satisfying films of the last year.

The nurse, Benigno (Javier Camara), is pudgy, plain-faced and perhaps a little too friendly to fully trust. Day after day, he carefully dotes on Alicia (Leonor Watling), a dancer who was thrown into a coma by a car accident.

In a bed down the hospital hall, Lydia - who has been critically injured by a bull - is watched by a travel writer, Marco (Dario Grandinetti). Marco loves Lydia but as her condition fails to improve, his sense of despair increases.

"Talk to her," advises Benigno as the two form an awkward friendship.

"Her brain has been turned off," Marco tells him.

"How are you so sure?" asks Benigno. "A woman's brain is a mystery, and in this state even more so."

But Benigno often has the ability to sound wiser than he actually is, and Marco's realization of this fact makes up much of the film's drama.

Spanish director Almodovar (who, on Tuesday, was nominated for an Oscar for directing "Talk to Her") loves to build movies from disparate elements: his plots, structure and style often seem borrowed from soap operas and 1950s melodramas, but his characters, and the situations they find themselves in, are decidedly edgier stuff.

His best known film, "Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down," is at heart an old-fashioned romance which just happens to occur between an escaped mental patient and an adult film star; the mother in "All About My Mother" (for which Almodovar won the 2000 Oscar for best foreign film) is actually a drag queen who has fathered a child with a nun.

"Talk to Her," while slightly tamer, is still a racy outing, and it isn't going to be everybody's cup of tea. But moviegoers who are looking for an unconventional story and don't mind flawed characters will enjoy some amazing scenes: A lovely, musical dream sequence; a series of shots in which Marco helps Lydia into her bullfighter's outfit; a bizarre and severely bawdy silent film imagined by Benigno; and a surprisingly happy ending that seems to come out of nowhere but, in retrospect, makes perfect sense.

Prior to making this film, Almodovar lobbied to direct an adaptation of Michael Cunningham's novel, "The Hours," and was rejected. Clearly, the book remains on his mind